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My Story
moonlight412:
I will try her next time! Thanks for the suggestion!
bluebelle:
--- Quote from: moonlight412 on February 23, 2017, 04:29:54 PM ---I will try her next time! Thanks for the suggestion!
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Def try to go thru her site...much more reasonable than paying by the minute on Keen..just my two cents lol.
Baypark1:
--- Quote from: moonlight412 on February 22, 2017, 01:40:01 PM --- How did it go for you?
Almost my story! It's 2 years instead of 7.. I have prayed whereever I could, have asked asked asked anywhere and everywhere for him to be back in my life..done loa, paychics tried to let go and ehat not.. I just can't seem to get over him, but I think I am exhausted now.. I feel I need to focus on myself more, love myself more and let him go even though I have to seem him daily.. maybe we are not meant to be! And I have to accept that! I try so hard but I still think about him.. I feel I am blocking any new energy to come into my life and missing out on true love..
Can anyone share any insights as to what they did?
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Oh boy, this sounds like me. Luckily, I never pined for 2 years. The first one was 9 months, 2nd one for 4 months and this one for 4 months. I've recently gotten to the point of not giving a crap anymore about him, focusing on me and moving forward. I think what the most important thing for me was to figure out WHY I was hanging on to someone that didn't want me. If I think about it long enough, I came to the conclusion I must just be a nut case. Who does that? Well, for me, I do it because I have fear I will never find that "connection" again. (bullcrap) I also have a huge issue with rejection. So, I had to dig deep as to WHY. It's been a process and not a quick one. Louise Hay "You can Heal your Life" is a great start. It's like therapy in a book. If you are honest with yourself, you will find the answers and will be able to address them. I also recently did a pros and cons list on the POI. When I see it on paper that the cons list has 30 things and the pros has 5, yeah, it kind of slapped me upside the head. I wonder if it's some kind of weird "addiction" we have and we crave. It's hard to put into words what I'm trying to say. Kind of like I'm addicted to the feeling of rejection and hurt? Does that make sense? I don't know. But, that's what I have been doing. I think it's very important to work on yourself at this time. I did a 30 day plan for myself of things I was going to do to focus on me and help me move forward. Things like changing my thoughts when he pops into my mind, positive affirmations in place of thinking about him (ie. I deserve someone who wants to be with me, he is not someone that deserves me, I don't want him), praying, meditating and affirmations daily, exercise 3 times a week, work on You can Heal your life daily....stuff like that. It's all a matter of changing our thoughts and actions. But it's really hard. I hope you can work through this because YOU are the most important and deserve happiness and feel free!!!
stargazer:
Lady P may be good for some but she was dead wrong for me. Thank god
Baypark1:
--- Quote from: stargazer on February 23, 2017, 06:04:37 PM ---Lady P may be good for some but she was dead wrong for me. Thank god
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me too, completely wrong
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