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HopefulHeart:
I do agree with you there. Lyafadara was my last reading. (was going to be SIN, but something tempted me to call Lya). That was Sept 22. (before that SIN had been Sept 5). I am done with readings. No more. I havent been tempted to call lately either. I wish I hadnt spent as much as I did on readings and I truly hate that I did. I wish a miracle could happen and the card I put those readings on could be paid, but that's not real life lol.
All that's left to do is wait and hope, and find a new job because this one makes me miserable, and I want to be happy in all aspects of life haha.
My POI has a quote he's posted before and I like to always remind myself of it "if it's meant to be then it will be, maybe not right away or when you think is best, but eventually"
Lovefash67:
Hi hopeful heart, you know exactly how you feel I also have PMDD and I would say during those times if I'm not keeping myself busy or hanging out with friends I get really really depressed and start thinking of my ex and just cry all day then I resort to binge reading . Unlike my ex , your ex sounds like a nice guy. I agree with stargazer give him some space. That's the best ting you can do right now, and go out and try enjoy your life. I'm not sure if he will come back or he won't but when you let go slowly you feel better heal and feel pain so if he does come back you guys have a fresh start if he doesn't at least your healed .
Keep your head up :)
HopefulHeart:
Small update y'all!
So, first off; score another one for Cookie. She'd made a prediction that I was going to start hanging out with people and meeting people I have chemistry with. Now originally I sort of brushed this one off. My social circle is fairly small, and I dont often get to hang out with others nor really meet others. Also, admittedly at the time I assumed she meant romantically. But looking back on my notes she'd said "friends" and "people". Well let me tell you, recently I have been socializing more and people have been reaching out. But this past week/week and a half has been a sudden rush of making plans and hanging out with people!!! Out of nowhere it seems! haha I've had plans every night for the past 3 nights, and already have plans for this weekend and much of next week! I've been reconnecting with some old friends, and randomly started hanging out with this girl I'd gone to school with but we never really talked much. We started talking through facebook the other day and hung out and OMG we talked for hours and realized that we could be really great friends! haha we were like "why didn't we start hanging out sooner?!"
I also just only recently noticed that she was also right about a guy coming in, talking to me and asking me out. (I did turn him down. He's not my type and actually a few years ago he was my supervisor at work sooo Im not really all that comfortable with that. But hey, I guess I'll take it as a compliment and also Cookie was accurate again!). So yea, I am definitely giving Cookie some points there!
HopefulHeart:
So this is a story I debated on sharing but eh what the heck lol.
I know I swore off of readings, and I'd been sticking to that. Especially as some of my predictions have been coming to pass. I decided to just let life flow. Last week I was having an especially rough day; work was awful (awful isnt even the word for it. It's been steadily getting worse and that day was just really bad), I was feeling alone (even though I'd had friends reaching out to talk and make plans and I had plans for that night. I guess I was mainly missing my ex and feeling stressed so you know how it goes... your mind spirals down.) Anyway, that day I had been thinking about getting a reading again with SIN but talked myself out of it. I went out, had a nice night with a friend, and came home. I was still feeling low but just was going to go to bed.
Then my phone went off... it was a message on etsy from someone I hadn't heard of before. They didn't have a shop, had opened their account that day, and didn't pull up anywhere on google. So anyway, this woman tells me that she'd been feeling pulled to talk to me and that she'd felt that I had a lot on my mind that I wanted to talk to about.
I was feeling skeptical of course, how did she find me? I don't use my etsy that often, and I'm one of those bad people that doesn't leave reviews so it's not like she could find me that way. The screen name there isn't tied to one i've used on Keen so I can't imagine she found me that way. I was intrigued lol. So, anyway I figured sure, what the hell. I confirmed with her that I did have a lot on my mind but that while I appreciated her reaching out I couldn't afford anything. (I figured she was one of those people you sometimes get on etsy who reach out and then want to charge you upwards of $100 for a service.). She told me she wanted to help point me in the right direction and that she'd give me full detailed answers if I did want her help. So I ended up sending her just a few questions "what can you tell me about me and [ex's name]?" and "what can you tell me about my job?"
well... maybe 15 or so minutes later she sends me 4 lengthy detailed paragraphs followed up by 2 shorter ones. She seemed to really get my ex's personality extremely well and gave positive predictions for things with him. She was also spot on with my work situation and gave positive predictions there as well. She gave me advice for each situation, as far as how to approach things and what my next move should be.
And the crazy thing? She's already gone! Already gotten rid of her etsy account. She was like a ghost haha. In for that one moment to send me that message, and then gone again as quick as she came!
bluebelle:
--- Quote from: HopefulHeart on October 13, 2016, 06:13:59 PM ---So this is a story I debated on sharing but eh what the heck lol.
I know I swore off of readings, and I'd been sticking to that. Especially as some of my predictions have been coming to pass. I decided to just let life flow. Last week I was having an especially rough day; work was awful (awful isnt even the word for it. It's been steadily getting worse and that day was just really bad), I was feeling alone (even though I'd had friends reaching out to talk and make plans and I had plans for that night. I guess I was mainly missing my ex and feeling stressed so you know how it goes... your mind spirals down.) Anyway, that day I had been thinking about getting a reading again with SIN but talked myself out of it. I went out, had a nice night with a friend, and came home. I was still feeling low but just was going to go to bed.
Then my phone went off... it was a message on etsy from someone I hadn't heard of before. They didn't have a shop, had opened their account that day, and didn't pull up anywhere on google. So anyway, this woman tells me that she'd been feeling pulled to talk to me and that she'd felt that I had a lot on my mind that I wanted to talk to about.
I was feeling skeptical of course, how did she find me? I don't use my etsy that often, and I'm one of those bad people that doesn't leave reviews so it's not like she could find me that way. The screen name there isn't tied to one i've used on Keen so I can't imagine she found me that way. I was intrigued lol. So, anyway I figured sure, what the hell. I confirmed with her that I did have a lot on my mind but that while I appreciated her reaching out I couldn't afford anything. (I figured she was one of those people you sometimes get on etsy who reach out and then want to charge you upwards of $100 for a service.). She told me she wanted to help point me in the right direction and that she'd give me full detailed answers if I did want her help. So I ended up sending her just a few questions "what can you tell me about me and [ex's name]?" and "what can you tell me about my job?"
well... maybe 15 or so minutes later she sends me 4 lengthy detailed paragraphs followed up by 2 shorter ones. She seemed to really get my ex's personality extremely well and gave positive predictions for things with him. She was also spot on with my work situation and gave positive predictions there as well. She gave me advice for each situation, as far as how to approach things and what my next move should be.
And the crazy thing? She's already gone! Already gotten rid of her etsy account. She was like a ghost haha. In for that one moment to send me that message, and then gone again as quick as she came!
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Wow! that's crazy!!!!
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