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Baypark1:
@hopeful heart. Reading this just jogged my memory of what Sincerity told me about my POI. On 9/17 she told me his in decision making mode and confirmation of his feelings will come early October. But she told me to not jump to conclusions when and if I see him online somewhere. That there is more to come for us. Well he told me a whIle back that he was on a dating site and thought it was stupid and he rarely ever got on there. I found the site he is on last night and hes active on it. , I kind of freaked but silently to myself. But that must have been what she was talking about because at the time it didn't mean anything to me until I read your thread. On 9/24 she said he's going to be changing his mind about what he wants and is trying to figure out how to back track to make it right and that he's not comfortable with the way it is. There's a conversation of the heart coming up this month-next month wHich will be more clear and honest as far as how he is feeling. So maybe he's figuring out that the dating thing sucks and hes.got the perfect girl right in front of him? It makes sense she would say to not jump to conclusions if I saw him online.
I guess we will see if she's right about the rest but this gives me a little hope :)
HopefulHeart:
Oh wow! haha it's crazy how they can get little details like that! You almost even forget about them or just brush them off, until they happen and then you go "oh hey!! they were right!" I love that all of our stories of good news and correct predictions give us all hope! Theres been a number of stories that have been posted on this forum that give me hope for my own situation as well! :)
Have you heard from your POI at all?
Baypark1:
I haven't heard from him on his own, NO. Our son's are friends and I saw him the other day but nothing major was said or done. It's frustrating!
HopefulHeart:
Man oh man do I hear you about being frustrated!!!!
My POI has gone silent again. I do have a few small updates; I was re-reading my notes and realized that a few readers were correct more or less. Im slowly going through my notes to see if anyone else got anything right, but these are the first few I've got.
I just realized today that Aries Intution got something right. She said in an "11" there would be the start of a change. If I count, 11 weeks from the reading is when I saw him at that party and he was very warm to me.
Miss Elisabeth said in the Sept/Oct time frame there would be a false start, a big step back, and then he will come back around (so still waiting on the coming back around?)
Also Lady P did warn me that when he starts talking again to not get too excited and get all "OMG he's talking!" because it will be a SLOW start with him coming in and out at first until he does finally come back (Funnily enough, AstroSarah also advised me that in my first few meetings with my POI to not get too excited thinking "oh man he's talking!" or "oh boy! is he going to kiss me!?")
Gaylene had predicted around a 2 or 20 we would talk and the 23rd was that party where we talked for a while. (also the 2nd was when he reached out and invited me into his fantasy football league)
But this past week he has been quiet again :/ I am actually starting to wonder if maybe this is what SINCERITY had meant....remember, she told me to not go nuts if I don't have contact with him and to keep it in check. (and funnily enough Lyafadara also told me that if he got quiet to not take it personally).
UGH I just dunno what to do anymore :( I'm just feeling so down about it all. Now this is the part where we get SUPER TMI... I do suffer from PMDD and this week has been shark week... so add this depression and stress to a stressful work at week (thats a whole other story lol) I'm just so emotionally drained. Im thinking I am maybe letting myself get more upset than normal just because of the other circumstances.
But I have my days I just want to give up. I love him dearly, I know he is the man I want to spend my life with... but I am losing faith. Somedays I just want to give up. But then something in me says "No don't. Not yet.'. I just love him too much. I've seen too much good in him (when things were good). And even now still... yes he's being a jerk and not talking. But he is a good person. He's kind and smart, he's got real goals and aspirations (not like so many guys you meet now a days who just want to party and work part time jobs.). He makes me laugh, he cares, I'm attracted to him (and wildly so). I feel like with him, I'm home. Theres... just.. it's all of him. I can't explain it. If someone were to ask me "why? why do you love him?" I'd struggle to give an answer. I could give you a million reasons why, but at the end of the day its more than that. I just do.
stargazer:
If you love him, give him time and space. He'll come back if it's meant to be. There's nothing you can do to control or help the situation and getting readings won't help. He's got to do it on his own. Live life and be ok with whatever outcome you receive. It's not in your hands.
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