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allibai3:
As you guys know my ex and I are in contact again qoc18 predicted what he will say but in starting to think all the people who I thought was right is wrong. This weekend I asked my ex if we were not boyfriend and girlfriend and he confirmed that we are not. I then asked him where is this going . He said it will go wherever we let it go, pretty much just go with the flow. Then he said but if we keep arguing and bringing up the past it will go nowhere. My ex does not like to be remind or questioned about the way he broke up with me it's like he is ashamed but he did it. Anyway I now think think Aries intuition is right she said that we will not get back together because he won't offer me anything, it won't go anywhere and now I'm starting to see what she was saying. To be a jerk I told my ex hat I'm dating someone else and it is getting serious(which was immature of me but I wand upset) I'll be seeing him this weekend and will most likely need to cut him off. Him being hesitant about being in a relationship with me is unsettling. I'm not ready for us to jump right into a relationship but I would like to know that's where it is headed and in not going to be in limbo. Him saying that he figured what he wanted made me think he though about everything and was ready but right now I think we need to just cut the cord. He doesn't really love me like he said he does.

tired of it all:
It's understandable to want to know where things are going in a relationship, but things just have to take their course.  It doesn't work to force things ahead or push someone to make a decision before they are ready. 

bluebelle:

--- Quote from: Tthompsj on July 05, 2016, 05:15:47 PM ---Ha, ahh Alibai...I did the same thing once (before this whole mess I have to deal with now). Actually, QoC was the one who recommended that I lie and tell my ex that I was dating someone...I did. He didn't care....initially, but whenever we'd have a little spat, he'd bring up "the other guy" and tell me to go run to him and the whole "you don't care about me anyway because you have him" blah blah.  Eventually, my ex and I got back on track, but then dfshifhgndjkgndkjgndkjgndfkgjdkgjdjkgnk happened and here I am lol

I wish I never would have started calling psychics, or if I did, I wish I was able to stop after two or three readings. I had been living my life, to a certain extent, based on what I was told and reacting to it, it's no wonder I'm where I am now as far my relationship is concerned. When my ex moved away for school, I saved up and even spoke to him about moving where he was. He admitted to me (something NONE of the psychics I had spoken to about 1.5-2 years ago (Alphafemale, QoC, Lisa Dianne, WLA) that the distance was too much and begged me to come out there. When I let psychics know that we had discussed it, one actually told me that he never moved (oh okay...I guess I hopped on a plane and traveled almost 2,000 miles for nothing then!), others told me it would be a mistake...I'm kicking myself now because I KNOW if I moved, we'd be together and happy. Every time I went to see him out there, we were perfect. We didn't have to deal with his ridiculous fake friends putting crap in his ear and telling him lies (the female friends, of course...god, this is why I can't stand females sometimes haha), none of the woes of back home. We were literally FREE. Now, I'm still back home and he's still out there and he met someone out there (they broke up now, but still). I'm not making an excuse as to why he did what he did, but I can kind of understand. Long-distance doesn't work for some/most relationships. He is like a kid, he needs someone there. I chose not to go based off what I was told by psychics and...here I am. The only psychics who seem to be on par with me NOW are Sincerity and Sapphire. I didn't start calling them until the middle of this year and only spoke to SIN 3 times and Sapphire once.

If he and I get back on track, I'm so done w/  psychics, even SIN and Sapphire. Maybe once a year, but seeing the effect of their "advice" and where it got me...man oh man. I take responsibility as well, but still. I'm just going to let it play out and do what I would normally do instead of what someone else suggests.

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So true!  these readings can really be detrimental.

tired of it all:
Even if they have real psychic ability, their "advice" about what to do can really screw things up!  And this is why I'm so especially leery of the ones who call themselves "life coaches" or say things on their listings like they will take you step by step through a relationship and guide you on what to do. 

To me that is not the job of a psychic, their job is to report what they see and let you decide.  Otherwise it's really no different than having a family member or friend meddling in things. 


--- Quote from: Tthompsj on July 05, 2016, 05:15:47 PM ---Actually, QoC was the one who recommended that I lie and tell my ex that I was dating someone...I did. 
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Wow...she told you to lie?!  WTF?! 

allibai3:
Thanks for the story tthmopsj!I can really learn from you.My ex and I are long distance as well, I was planning to move closer to him when he decided to pull his infamous disappearing act.I am currently in the process of applying to PHD programs I will be applying to a few in his area but his indecisiveness is making me not want to apply to those places. When I told him the lie of going strong with someone else he asked me why am I coming to see him and I told him I wanted to see how I feel which is very true he then asked me what happens if I dont feel anything and I told him I dont know I will have to figure it out he did not reply.Its like nothing seems to phase him.He has a great poker face which really makes me feel like he doesnt care.I want to give him a push to man up but hes so freaking slow.

I agree with you and tiredofitall following the advice of psychics is a NO NO.If I listened to some of them my ex and I will not be talking right now.


I do hope that I didn't mess anything up but I honestly don't know.He sounded very unsure when I asked him where is this going. He at first told me to stop asking him those questions and to let things flow.When we got back together last year he did the same thing he  was not offering anything just keeping me in limbo saying hes not ready until I walked away and he maned up.I'm afraid its going to happen again.He gets me without the commitment.

I will not bring up the imaginary guy again. Hopefully he will forget about it lmfao

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