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False predictions
Zenia:
I agree with you saying NOT follow advice.I get offended if anyone offers me advice.I can think for myself.The advice they give are so totally low sometimes also.I do not believe in lying,making a man jealous,or set up any kind of show.That is doomed to backfire.Law of karma.Be honest at all times.
However one time i did follow an advice from a male reader,that was a hit. :)
My loveintrest insulted me by saying i should go out more,and meet other men.I was so alone and bla bla.Go on a datingsite and so on.
Then a reader told me to remind him of something important:I work in a worldwide maledominated industry,where i talk to men online all day.Over the years we are talking about hundreds..So my chances of meeting men are rather good :)I am up to my ears in men :)
I told my loveintest so,and he got very quiet..
tired of it all:
--- Quote from: allibai3 on July 05, 2016, 06:06:39 PM ---When we got back together last year he did the same thing he was not offering anything just keeping me in limbo saying hes not ready until I walked away and he maned up.I'm afraid its going to happen again.He gets me without the commitment.
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I understand...I know this is tough.
I feel like my ex gets me without offering anything at all...because that's just how I feel about him and have for years even before we had a relationship. The only thing that makes any difference is whether he knows it or not, and I think by now he does know it no matter what I do. I gave up fighting it or trying to make him think otherwise because it was so pointless.
The one thing I might have done differently is to have not pressed him for an answer to where things were going between us or how he felt about me...so I'm really sorry if I harp on this. It's something I have flashbacks about and wish I could do over again. There can come a point too when you've had enough and just have to walk away, but only you can know when that is. My only problem is I can say I'm done and walk away but I still feel the same way as ever.
Leogirl0808:
Guys, just to add my two cents. Don't tell the guy you are seeing someone whether it's a month of knowing him or three years, it only hurts their ego and then they get all jerk like lol. It's almost them thinking then "why are you here"and " why are you calling me to tell me that".Men usually do things when they get time to think and on their terms. It totally sucks, I know. With this whole having an imaginary boyfriend, men sense that you're in it for some good old drama, more the reason they run. More the reason to just let him reach out, it's hard but better in the long run and avoids the emotions of yours. I have learned all this from my past experiences, it's hard. Men are unusual creatures, who take time to think, analyze (they think we are bad) and then proceed. Don't play games it can become deadly.
tired of it all:
--- Quote from: Zenia on July 05, 2016, 06:28:50 PM ---However one time i did follow an advice from a male reader,that was a hit. :)
My loveintrest insulted me by saying i should go out more,and meet other men.I was so alone and bla bla.Go on a datingsite and so on.
Then a reader told me to remind him of something important:I work in a worldwide maledominated industry,where i talk to men online all day.Over the years we are talking about hundreds..So my chances of meeting men are rather good :)I am up to my ears in men :)
I told my loveintest so,and he got very quiet..
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LOL...that was clever advice.
Most of the male readers have usually given me advice like: DON'T contact him, don't ask any friends about him, don't post anything where he can see it or only post happy things, don't let him know that you miss him, let him come to you. All that might have been good advice if I had followed it. :-\
Female readers have tended to give me advice like...suggestions on how and when to contact, tell him how you feel...pretty much every time I have followed advice like that it has blown up in my face.
tired of it all:
--- Quote from: Leogirl0808 on July 05, 2016, 06:38:49 PM ---Guys, just to add my two cents. Don't tell the guy you are seeing someone whether it's a month of knowing him or three years, it only hurts their ego and then they get all jerk like lol. It's almost them thinking then "why are you here"and " why are you calling me to tell me that".Men usually do things when they get time to think and on their terms. It totally sucks, I know. With this whole having an imaginary boyfriend, men sense that you're in it for some good old drama, more the reason they run. More the reason to just let him reach out, it's hard but better in the long run and avoids the emotions of yours. I have learned all this from my past experiences, it's hard. Men are unusual creatures, who take time to think, analyze (they think we are bad) and then proceed. Don't play games it can become deadly.
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Yes, well said and quoted for truth. Especially the men are unusual creatures part, lol.
But the deadly part too, things can get way out of control especially when there's any jealousy involved.
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