I read with Nina 3 times and I must say that I really liked her. Here is the breakdown:
Reading 1 (September)
All she asked was my name and DOB. She explained her style and went directly into my personality (she said she was doing this quickly to see if we establish a connection because I definitely know me) From me she went directly into my ex (I did not say what I was calling about) She nailed his personality and description…and then went directly into our relationship.
She said he has a lot of fears and insecurities and the breakup had absolutely nothing to do with me and I need to stop beating myself up over it. He simply was ready and he needed to figure things out. She said that he never dated anyone like me and he didn’t want to lose me but at the same time didn’t know how to keep me.
She said that he was so harsh and hurtful during the breakup and I need to understand that he did not mean any of it . He needed to push me away and there was only one way to do that.
She said that he feels a lot of regret and guilt when it comes to me because of the things that he said and because of how he hurt me.
(at this point I still haven’t said anything…I just listened to what she was saying)
He is trying to work through this feeling and He will make contact.
She sees that this man is meant to be in my life and that this time around will be it for both of us.
She said I could reach out if I wanted to…he would respond and it would be positive. She said that I would be speeding up the process…but suggests that I be patient because I need it to be him. (and this is so true…Anasela said the same thing and it truly is how I feel…I really did need it to be him or else I would always wonder “would we be together if I never contacted him?”)
She gave me a time frame of anywhere from now until the end of the 1st quarter of 2011. She said that once he makes contact that things will move really slow…but to hang in there because everything will work out.
***He reached out to me in November and things were moving slowly but positively up until the absolute end of January…things slowed down tremendously
Reading 2 (end of February/beginning of March)
She remembered the time frame…and she said for me to just be patient. He is working up to opening up to me but doesn’t know how. He is stressed and overwhelmed with work but be patient and hold back because he will come around. She said that end of March…possibly beginning of April things will pick up.
She said that I have to remember that he does not think logically…so when I am thinking “how hard is it to just drop a simple email saying Hi.?” That’s logical thinking and he doesn’t think this way…so I have to think of the opposite of logical when it comes to him or else I will drive myself crazy…SO TRUE LOL…and again…I haven’t said anything to her other than “just wanted to pop in and get an update…last we spoke was September”
Reading 3 (Monday)
She remembered the time frame and she told me that the 1st quarter of this year was really important for us…he said that the month of February he was suppose to open up…but he had pulled back instead..but that is ok…it is important that there is still some form of communication.
He is not 100% ready and to be patient and do not reach out!
He is working through some things…there are some changes in his life…possibly something with work…and men can’t multi task the way women can…so do not worry….there is no other female around him that has caused him to be distant…actually if anything he has been keeping to himself and laying low.
She said that she sees that he will make contact within 3 to 7 days and it will be a random email…she said he is going to do that…but it will be somewhat consistent. She said she wasn’t sure if we would see each other in April…it may come up but the time may not workout for one of us…but she sees us seeing each other in May a few times and in June we start talking and working through some things and by the end of June into July we will be in a fully committed relationship.
(I have received that same time frame from Kelli, Kinsey, Seha, and StarShadow from Liveperson)
He emailed me yesterday…random email. And another one today! So we shall see what happens next
