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volleying between faith and predictions
hope4love:
--- Quote from: Bark angel on November 13, 2013, 03:38:20 AM ---Guess I haven't read with those psychics then. All the readers I speak with are clear on one point - one should not adjust one's behavior for another person. Just "live your life and when the Universe feels you are both ready you'll be placed in each other's path".
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These readers are the ones who have ethics and their client's best interest at heart. An ethical will tell a caller to not put her life on hold for someone who can't or won't be with you, to put yourself first, to love yourself and live your life passionately. And yes, if it's best for the parties involved, they will reconnect when the time is right. Or else, the estranged love interest returns and asks for a second call and you've long moved on and have no interest in re-connecting or re-kindling anything.
bstalling:
--- Quote from: hope4love on November 13, 2013, 07:02:11 AM ---
--- Quote from: Bark angel on November 13, 2013, 03:38:20 AM ---Guess I haven't read with those psychics then. All the readers I speak with are clear on one point - one should not adjust one's behavior for another person. Just "live your life and when the Universe feels you are both ready you'll be placed in each other's path".
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These readers are the ones who have ethics and their client's best interest at heart. An ethical will tell a caller to not put her life on hold for someone who can't or won't be with you, to put yourself first, to love yourself and live your life passionately. And yes, if it's best for the parties involved, they will reconnect when the time is right. Or else, the estranged love interest returns and asks for a second call and you've long moved on and have no interest in re-connecting or re-kindling anything.
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To be fair, some supposedly decent psychics have offered this advice...and tons of other misguided advice. Just because you are a gifted psychic does NOT mean you are gifted in human psychology and counseling, unfortunately. Of course, there are those that tell you to do nothing to keep calling back for updates.
melancholia:
The vast majority of this thread, all I could think of was this:
I'm so glad so many of us have come to the realization that the ball's in our court.
Bark angel:
--- Quote from: bstalling on November 13, 2013, 07:46:40 AM ---Just because you are a gifted psychic does NOT mean you are gifted in human psychology and counseling, unfortunately.
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Actually, I don't think this is true, unless there are two distinct and different definitions for "gifted". To me, if a reader is gifted it is because they have the capability of communing with a higher spirit and acting as a conduit for the messages and life lessons we learn while here on earth. I can't imagine any message given from a higher spirit through a gifted psychic (the messenger) not being grounded in good psychology and counseling.
divine wishes:
Perfect gif, somnus!!!
--- Quote from: Somnus on November 13, 2013, 12:54:11 PM ---The vast majority of this thread, all I could think of was this:
I'm so glad so many of us have come to the realization that the ball's in our court.
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