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what if you have a really bad (off) read with a trusted reader?
hope4love:
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Amaranth:
--- Quote from: hope4love on November 07, 2013, 07:46:28 AM ---Do you chalk it up to an off day for the reader and take it with a pinch of salt but still go to them?
I had a read tonight with a reader I've been consulting for the past year and she's been pretty accurate for the most part about stuff but tonight, she waaaay off.
She was going on about Thanksgiving and how it's affecting this person in question, etc.
I'm not in the US so I don't celebrate US Thanksgiving although my birthday is usually around that weekend. I asked if this person recalls/remembers my birthday and her take was 'no, but he's good with remembering birthdays and he knows he can look it up.' (I know this person in a business situation and yes, he has my personal information including my birthday)
I was thoroughly annoyed because this is such an obvious answer. Of course he can look up my personal information. Yeesh! >:(
I should have called her about the US Thanksgiving take because that's SO not the case.
Okay, I'm going to heed Amaranth's advise to release in order for things to manifest as they should.
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It's very possible that your psychic was just having an 'off' day, was tired and not clearly focused, distracted, or had already done several readings previous to yours and hadn't 'refreshed' themselves enough before taking your reading. Or sometimes, as is often the case, readers honestly don't know the answer to your question, and instead of just being forthcoming and saying, 'I'm not getting any answers on that at the moment', they'll try to save face by grasping at straws that could be realistically applicable ( oh look, we're in November, it's plausible Thanksgiving is on his/her mind' not taking into consideration that their client or the person they are asking about celebrate that holiday or live anywhere it is celebrated. Definitely not trying throw your reader under the bus, because it could just as easily be any of the other possibilities I mentioned and your next reading may feel back to being on par with what you expect from his/her readings.
When a reader starts to become consistently wrong for you over a period of time, regardless of whether they worked for you in the past, that's when it's time to move on from them. There can be a couple of reasons for this all-too-often occurrence. Once again, our spirit guides come and go, and at one point one who was totally comfortable giving information to your favorite psychic may take it's leave only to be replaced by a new one that totally decides to clam up with your fave psychic and refuses to connect with them. This also commonly leads to why people scratch their heads over why their psychics are great with career predictions but lousy at love predictions, or visa versa, or can totally be eerily accurate in some aspects of our life but seem absolutely clueless about the rest. A lot of it heavily depends on the comfort level of our guides with each psychic and what they are willing to talk about. As I had said before, one of my guides will talk incessantly about every creep I have ever dated in my lifetime, but absolutely refuses to speak about my ex-fiancé, and if I or the psychic giving me a reading so much as mentions my ex's name or tries to force a reading on the topic, he instantly shuts off the connection. I always literally picture him folding fists up into his chest and turning his back like a defiant child, lol.
But once again, sometimes your guides are perfectly cooperative and unfortunately, a psychic isn't 'connecting' because they're simply a fraud. Unfortunately, they are out there, preying on very hurt, confused people.
And sometimes, a psychic stops 'working' for you accurately in the long-term not because of anything you or your guides are or aren't doing, but because some kind of huge life event occurred in the psychic's life. Death in the family, illness, divorce, legal or financial problems, chronic stress, even something like the birth of a baby which can greatly shift hormones and body chemistry can greatly affect a reader's ability. In those cases, the reader should really take some time off from reading professionally and focus on re-balancing themselves so they can get back to a place where they can once again give balanced, objective readings unaffected by and unswayed by any personal chaos in their lives.
I'm sorry tonight has been disappointing for you. I really suggest everyone looking for a little guidance and personal empowerment get a deck of Oracle cards. It is nowhere near as heavy as Tarot, as every single card is a positive message or suggestion from your guides. The more you use it and let it absorb your energy, the more you'll be surprised how no matter what your situation is, the card you draw for yourself is accurate and relevant. Its also a great and easy way to quickly receive a message as to what you may be inadvertently doing to keep yourself from receiving the things you desire and how to overcome that.
And definitely, definitely try to just 'release the information' and trust The Universe as you said. Sometimes the things we think we want now, a little further down the road we are provided with something better, and then we look back and think, 'Geez, I can't believe I was so hung up on this guy/girl/situation' and realize how much time we wasted feeling lousy and hurt and chasing fairytales. In the end, what is, is what must be. We are like a stone, and everything in our life is the water and debris flowing past, weathering us and shaping us. What is debris will continue to wash away; what sticks will stick and stay around. Easier said than done, but keep your outlook as positive as possible. Not unrealistic, mind you, but just positive. And just focus on that idea: 'this or something better manifests for me now'.
Bark angel:
This all makes so much sense, and I must say I have experienced days when my trusted readers are "off" or the reading seems not to be a positive as earlier ones. Not that the outcome has changed, but little nuances and details seem a bit off. I have always wondered about readers on Keen, for example - that platform does not provide for a reader to take a breather between clients, or certainly it doesn't appear it does. On California Psychics you can actually see when the psychics take breaks and I , for one, have a go to reader on CP and I actually try to time my reading so that I catch her either at the beginning of her shift or after a break.
hope4love:
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Zenia:
Intresting post.
I agree on most part,but would like to add,that it isnt just our guides that provides information,its also the readers.I am not sure my own guides are involved so much at all.The readers often state they are given info by their own guides and the divine.
And here are 2 problems.
If they are getting info from their own guides,and not yours:
We must remember that guides are not all-knowing,and sees it all.It depends on the guides level of spiritual developement as well.We tend to think they are in higher frequencies,but that may not be the case at all.
If one guide is jugdemental in the delivery of info,this is not a being from a high density.Way too often i have experienced this.
Then there is the readers "filter"that info shall pass through.And here the readers own spiritual level is of great importance.
They can only guide you from their own point of evolvement.Not above.Sometimes you grow apart from your reader,and need to find someone else,one with greater spiritual approach,.
I do oraclecards myself,and many other forms of divinations.Its a great help. :)
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