You’re going about it the right way and it’s perfectly normal to, in a sense, compare a new love to an ex one, as well as hold the new one to a higher standard. It’s also perfectly natural to not feel head over heels for a new love. I find it extremely concerning when someone jumps with both into a new relationship and is over-the-top lovey dovey about it. Those are the people you see constantly posting about their POIs on social media (while POI’s page barely, if at all, displays them). Bound to crash and burn.
Don’t worry about your lack of “love” for your current POI 🤗 just take it one day at a time and live in the moment. Over time, if it’s meant to be, your feelings will develop and your ex will fade. I HATE this saying, but you know “the best way to get over someone is to get under a new one”. As much as I hate how it’s worded, it’s true. A new person, provided they aren’t a righteous ass, can help with self-esteem, help to show how you should be treated and what to expect, realistically, from a partner. It’s growth.
As for the non-reads: I can’t answer that. It could be due to her being burnt out due to a higher number of panic pandemic readings (PPR as I like to call them). Or people could be reading too close together. From what Yona has said, it’s best to at least wait six month before trying to get another reading with her. I’m not sure how close your readings were though. Perhaps she was MIA for a while to take what I’m sure was a much needed break. If anything, I feel she probably should shut her shop down for a few weeks for that very reason. In no way am I excusing her non-reads because as I’ve mentioned countless times, she’s been incorrect for me and it’s been over two years now...
