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Maybe this is a vent?

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Cfisher:
Great post PrettyLittleLiz! I'm so glad that everything has worked over for you over there! You deserve a wonderful guy who will make you happy!!! Yeah!!!

"If you do the same thing over and over, you can expect the same results." The fact that you opened up an online dating profile instead of getting a reading, shows that by changing your actions and attitude you changed your results. It's nice to hear from such a seasoned vet that there is light at the end of the tunnel :)

One thing I've learned throughout this process is that when something is so incredibly difficult, it's just not worth fighting for. And ya, I totally agree with you re: when someone wants to be with you, they just do and it's proven through actions and words consistently.

So happy for you!!!

jen80:
HI guys. Am so sad today. Got my credit card bill. As I always do I kick myself every month. Thousands of dollars in the hole and for what? Please if you have not gone as deep as I have listen to this word of caution. You will spend your life savings for no result. Yes you will get contact but for what?. You go back to see when the next contact is coming?. If you are unfortunate to get in the grips of unethical readers you will be in a more serious trouble. You will call daily and be fed lies to calm your anxiety but not enough to stop you from calling. Look at the page of some readers and you will see some of us calling daily and even twice daily. Look at the feedbacks.I was one of those people. They will tell you ur special, give u appointments, tell you lies and encourage you to continue to call. Out of ten things they will give you one or two that will come true which will make you believe that they are genuine and know what they are doing.look back and think most of those things that they got right were from cold reading and guess work.if someone tells you they see you moving and with boxes around you and that happens it doesn't mean that they are right it means that they were lucky with yours as they have been telling everyone the same thing. That's why forums like this is good where others like you can compare notes. If you are looking for work and are given intitals of cities and it happens its the same scenerio. It was so funny when I saw intials given to someone on a highly rated readers page about where she was looking for a job which turned out wrong and the person had the guts to leave a bad feedback. Guess what I was given the same initials for work. I wish all I know now I knew then.your guy is coming back there will be intimacy, penetration etc  have seen people say that on here it was also said to me and my friend but in our case it didn't happen but it happened to some meaning their guesswork worked.if you don't get contact you will be asked if ýou had received a 'missed call' by an unknown number which they will tell you is your guy. There is always a 'trip' your guy will be on. He loves you and misses you, how are you sure that is what your guy is feeling? If someone loves and misses you he will try to contact you.your guy is scared but not scared enough to start another relationship and even marry someone else. some will tell you to contact the guy which opens you up to shame, ridicule. Shows the guy you are desperate and needy and he will come and get free sex and go back to his new love. The readers will once again convince you that he is running because the feelings he has for you is so strong. No contact? don't worry its because of will power and delays. Then why get a reading?. I read on a readers page where someone had spent thousands with a reader for a job situation and was even told by the reader not to bother to look for another job as she will surely get the one that she was asking about but at the end she didn't get the job and now had no money and the reader sent her a free one minute. I think the reader was faery lady. I know some of us will say that she was foolish and shouldn't have listened to the reader but we also do the same thing when it comes to love, we are told that our guys or gals will come back and we put our life on hold for years when we can go out there and take control of our lives, meet new people and start another chapter. I spent so much money that I can't believe that can happen to me but it did. I have always seen myself as a strong person but not any more anything can happen to anyone. To be scammed is easy if you are vulnerable. There are ethical accurate readers out there and when you find them hold on to them and don't go around looking for more. Read only when neccessary. Please I hope I have not offended anyone but I am just venting due to my credit card bill. Spent money with nothing to show for it but notebooks full of crap that has no meaning. Omg am so sad.

hope4love:
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skyline:
Wow Liz, thanks for sharing this. An eye opening read for sure.

I will give another thumbs up for Hatter. Chatted with her awhile ago and she was spot on about my finances.

PrettyLittleLiz:
You're welcome! Still like these readers the most and have tried others since.

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