Relationship Psychology Discussions > The Vent
Maybe this is a vent?
Awesomeness:
jojo hit the nail on the head with the gut feelings. TRUST YOUR GUT. You know your man better than these random people on the other end of the line or chat box! That whole, "sit back and wait for him to contact you. Play cool. Make him chase" thing doesn't work with my guy. He gets his feelings hurt and thinks I've lost interest in him. WE ARE ALL INDIVIDUALS.
Take these readings with a grain of salt and trust your instincts. If it resonates, go with it. If it doesn't let it go.
skyline:
--- Quote from: Awesomeness on March 16, 2013, 03:14:21 AM ---That whole, "sit back and wait for him to contact you. Play cool. Make him chase" thing doesn't work with my guy. He gets his feelings hurt and thinks I've lost interest in him. WE ARE ALL INDIVIDUALS.
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I was reading Lady Fontaine's facebook page and she mentioned making a guy a wait 2-3 months before revealing your feelings to give him the gratification working for what he wants and thrill of the chase.
As a guy, I tend to agree with this, but anything beyond that is head games and will probably end up hurting or pissing off your guy if he's sensitive and caring.
skyline:
--- Quote ---I have also learned that if someone wants to be with you – THEY ARE WITH YOU. I don’t care what sort of excuses psychics give and I am not trying to offend anyone – these external and emotional issues are not the reason these men/women do not want to be with us. They just don’t want to make themselves uncomfortable, change their life, give up something else, or just commit. It isn’t as complicated as we have led ourselves to believe in order to feel better about it. I spent years and thousands of dollars on this man and believed we would get back together. I had everything invested in our future and it didn’t work out the way most everyone saw. It also begs the question – what are these readers picking up on? Intent? What we think will happen?
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That is a very good question and I do believe they are picking up on intent with no follow through.
As many experienced callers have observed on here, there are no 100% readers, though we still keep looking for them. There are some readers, however, who are gifted enough to make it worthwhile calling.
skyline:
Saw this on Lady Fontaine's facebook page:
--- Quote ---THE TRUTH about WHY HE DOES'NT CALL.. Plus Some Tips on KEEPING HIM ENTICED!
This is one of the most common questions I am asked. The answer is simple; if the man doesn't call... he has lost interest. Don't sympathize (or believe) a man who tells you that he is busy at work, sick in bed or away on vacation. Last time I checked; they had phones at all those locations. If a man is interested - he *WILL* call.. even if it is a 30 second call to say he is thinking of you. Don't make excuses for him. If it is early in a relationship and a man has stopped calling, pick up the pieces; learn from the experience and move on. Don’t invest the energy in someone who isn’t interested in you.
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Zenia:
--- Quote from: skyline on March 16, 2013, 05:09:39 PM ---Saw this on Lady Fontaine's facebook page:
--- Quote ---THE TRUTH about WHY HE DOES'NT CALL.. Plus Some Tips on KEEPING HIM ENTICED!
This is one of the most common questions I am asked. The answer is simple; if the man doesn't call... he has lost interest. Don't sympathize (or believe) a man who tells you that he is busy at work, sick in bed or away on vacation. Last time I checked; they had phones at all those locations. If a man is interested - he *WILL* call.. even if it is a 30 second call to say he is thinking of you. Don't make excuses for him. If it is early in a relationship and a man has stopped calling, pick up the pieces; learn from the experience and move on. Don’t invest the energy in someone who isn’t interested in you.
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Lots of truth in this,,but there are men(and women)that become overwhelmed and paralyzed with fear,there are blocks and inhibitions.We are all human.I can relate to this.Long personal experience with anxitey for intimacy,and long life-experince in many other ways.Life is not black and white.Life is not a magazin of Cosmo.Lady Fontaine takes it waaay to lightly.I never liked her reading either..
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