So Cookie told me when I read on my ex in Jan that I wouldn't be able to tell about him till I had been with him a year. That would have been May. I "knew" about him in March so pretty close. But on my current guy she said "You won't be able to tell how he feels about you until you have been together 7-10 months" is the outlook for this the same? Even though she said "how he feels about you"? I hate Cookie speak..