POI won't come back?

[Lady_C]

Jia and Pixie dust both told me that I need to let go and that my ex has moved on. I'm not sure how truthful they but the fact that it's been almost 6 months makes me wonder if it's true. The reading was similar with both psychic that he didn't have any feelings for me and just lost interest and is seeing a new girl.

There's a psychic on Etsy that does audio reading and she said my ex is seeing some but it;s not serious. I do trust  her the most because I had a reading from her about a relative who passed on and she was right describing her death . I don't get fairy tale readers often, I get harsh truths but I do like to go into details when i ask questions with my reading so they tell me, whether it's 100% accurate is another thing.

[sawthelight]

Phoenix Rising told me bluntly that my ex just stopped having any feelings for me. She was totally wrong about it though. He has made it obvious that he still has feelings for me, even now. It doesn't mean he will ever do anything about it though.

Stuff like this makes me angry...when a psychic is dead sure about a negative thing. I wouldn't deliver it like that, that means being so certain about it and in your situation, it proved to be the opposite. It means they don't know how to deliver the information in an empowering way and also how to admit that they could possibly be wrong. Ugh.

Yes, I agree. I used to be a huge fan of Sweetheart Tarot / Kelly until she pulled this one on me earlier this year. She had been quite accurate in the past regarding one particular person and in the last reading, she basically said he used to care about you but now doesn't, he's lying about everything, he's horrible, he's this, he's that. I felt she was exasperated with me for some reason. She has delivered bad news to me before pretty much almost always without tact in her "I'm for real and I don't BS" kinda way which I appreciated for the most part even though it stung ... but the last reading she took it a step too far and had me in a fetal position for a long, long time. Took me a while to get over it and get back to my senses and believe that no one knows POI better than I do. I understand she's been MIA for quite a while, right after my reading actually. While I wish her well and hope she's OK, I will never read with her again. I'm totally OK receiving "negative" news since I know I have a strong inner balance. But the last reading was unacceptable in her delivery.

And she was wrong about it, too. Absolutely no need for the empathic belief in her over the top negativity.

Yea, that's awful. Sometimes I feel they do that to just get you to stop calling, it's definitely possible. 

[sawthelight]

Oh when Phoenix Rising said that to me, it was the first (and last!!) time I ever called her and first thing out of her mouth when I asked about my ex. I asked why he had cut off contact with me and she answered without missing a beat, because he just stopped having any feelings for you. I can't emphasize enough how wrong that was. But it had nothing to do with helping me stop calling or anything like that. Just fake BS she said off the top of her head.

Judi on the other hand got more and more negative about my ex the more I read with her. And I guess she was probably trying to help me move on or let go. It didn't help at all though because it just plays with your mind when they flip the readings. She flipped 180 degrees from where she started on him. She may have been right in the end when she was calling him an energy vampire. Lol. But in the beginning she was channeling him saying all these nice things.

Overwhelmingly negative readings are just as bad as the fairytale ones. Maybe worse. Either way you are not getting the truth which is somewhere in the middle. The truth is what sets us free.

YES!

[sawthelight]

I had a Keen reader do that to me, I still remember it so vividly.  I had spoken to her via chat one day and she saw glowing things for me and past POI...a few days alter, after meeting with him and him acting like a big jerk, she turned the whole reading around to negative stuff and no future.  SMH.