i'm t sure if it was detachment was a factor in mine or not. Back in Winter I was determined to try and find a psychic about my situation. Which is how I found this board. I never tried one though, because well I never had tried one and I wasn't sure who to try. Should I get a phone reading or in person first and what kind etc. Plus all the heavy hitters. Their stuff is always filled and what if we don't connect etc. I sorta detached from the psychic idea (I still wanted to try one but I had no clue where to start etc) and then I detached from my poi. I figured when I worked up the courage and figure out what psychic I would try first, hopefully they could give me some sort of hint of my love life (even if it's not him, hopefully something like saying you meet a guy in a bookstore, go then etc) once I did detach myself, he came back. A friend said it was because guys have a sixth sense and he can sense another guy hitting on you and he doesn't like it haha.
I don't know if he did or not or why he came back. But now he's disappeared again :/ I did try a psychic. We shall see and if I detach myself again, maybe he might be back for good or the one for me finally arrives