First, let me say that I didn't send the text expecting a particular reply. While it would have been nice and certainly I would have appreciated a polite reply like, "thanks, you too" I sent the text to open the doors to communicati on, because some advisors had told me that he was apprehensiv e and didn't know how to reach out to me. So, I was just breaking the ice, as it were. Let's see. The advisors that thought it would be a good idea were:
Midnight Magical Spirit said she thought it would be a good idea
Abundant Visions/Gaylene said it would help to let him know I have no hard feelings
Source Power said she thought it would be a good idea to open up communicati on
Mikki Reno said she thought it would be a good idea as a catalyst to communicati on
Sapphire21 said she thought it would be a good idea as a catalyst to communicati on
Your Message From Above/Aurora said it would be a good idea
Vallentina Rose said it would not be a bad idea
NorthstarJu lie advised that while it wouldn't hurt to send a text, she wouldn't do it if she were me, because she would not want him to get what he wants
Matthea said he won't respond
Samantha Wild said he would respond but in a tight manner, not relaxed.
Question, if you don't mind sharing, which advisors told you to contact him and which didn't? And the ones who told you not to, did they say what their reasonings were?
Upon learning that I sent the text and received no reply, three advisors said it was because he is not ready. One advisor said he is contemplati ng what to say, to represent his feelings without them being construed by me as a lie. Two advisors said he is thinking about what to say, and an answer will come soon. One advisor said that the absence of a reply is telling in that it shows he still has feelings, because if he had no feelings, he wouldn't have had to think much about how to reply, and it would have been easy to just send a quick, "thank you, you too". I see that reasoning, I guess, but I also don't rule out the possibility that either he didn't believe it warranted a reply or that he was trying to show me that I am not important to him.
All of the advisors said he was thinking about me now.
Hi Smee
Did he respond? Were any of the psychics right?
I did not receive a response yet. It has been one month since I sent the text. The readings continue to show promise of reconciliat
ion, but there is another woman involved, and the readers all seem to say that he will not reach out until that has run its course. Some indicate that the wheels on that casual relationshi
p are beginning to fall off. I cannot comment on whether they are correct on that.
The psychics reasoning for him not reaching out while he is with someone else follows my sense too. I don't think my ex ever really wanted to lie to me. I sense he feels badly that he may not have been totally honest with me and in the break up call, he did not admit that there was someone that had caught his eye. I also believe that to speak with me while he is in another relationshi
p would provide too much opportunity for a question to occur in a discussion that could lead him to have to deny it. My birthday is this week, Thursday, and many readers have indicated that he may use that as an opportunity to make some fort of communicati
on. Many think it could be a simple Facebook post. Some think it would be more. I guess we will see.
