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Kat23:
I agree Ann is a straight shooter. I used to call so many readers and Ann picked that up. I was psychic addict..When she read that POI and I were stuck, she advised me to stop calling readers, use my money to go out meet people, join adventure club...she even provided a website for me to join.. her negative readings, the way she delivers the message was humiliating, hurtful.., I ended in tears,. Ann is the only advisor on keen who advised me not to call for a reading.. when I connect with POI, QOC and Cookie are the only two readers who turned out to be accurate...When a man cares for you, he will never ghost you... he will move the earth for you...
flora0250:
Thanks so much Star & Kat....Feel comfortable with where I’m at which is focusing on my work and my child and being a mom and making ends meet and trying to find time to do things I enjoy. Honestly that’s quite a lot right now. I did it before alone... I’ve done it all this time alone... I like myself and don’t feel like I want to be “out there looking” right now.
I went on a few dates with a few different men after my POI and I stopped seeing each other. but for various reasons for each I just wasn’t into them. For good reasons though! One guy seemed to have a really negative vibe and like he had just gotten out of jail. Really aggressive feeling and I ended it as quick as I could. Another guy used a derogatory minority slur. A third guy was just way too far away to really pursue (an hour and a half) for being only meh about. And the fourth just had some serious deep value differences religiously and morals. So even though I liked him I just thought nope these are things that aren’t going to fly in the long run.
So now I’m just done for a while!!
I think if I focus on some personal goals it will help boost my self confidence and maybe then I’ll get back to feeling like looking. Or I won’t.
But yes I felt like Anne was accurate as far as I can tell about the situation and it would be nice if he was thinking of me and if we could reconnect down the road... but I’m not going to pass up an attraction if something comes along. The info I keep getting from Cookie and Anne and almost every other reader I’ve thought could possibly be accurate is that he hasn’t been ready yet ... and it really makes sense to me that that could be actually true considering he and his wife had just separated 2 months before we met.
So maybe it just needs time... like Divine Love said also... so I’m really good with just going with the flow. Maybe someone else will come along for me or maybe not. I don’t know. But I’m good either way. And definitely binge-calling less and less thankfully. But still not out of the woods on that part maybe.
Fidget1028:
--- Quote from: flora0250 on December 07, 2018, 07:02:25 PM ---Thanks so much Star & Kat....Feel comfortable with where I’m at which is focusing on my work and my child and being a mom and making ends meet and trying to find time to do things I enjoy. Honestly that’s quite a lot right now. I did it before alone... I’ve done it all this time alone... I like myself and don’t feel like I want to be “out there looking” right now.
I went on a few dates with a few different men after my POI and I stopped seeing each other. but for various reasons for each I just wasn’t into them. For good reasons though! One guy seemed to have a really negative vibe and like he had just gotten out of jail. Really aggressive feeling and I ended it as quick as I could. Another guy used a derogatory minority slur. A third guy was just way too far away to really pursue (an hour and a half) for being only meh about. And the fourth just had some serious deep value differences religiously and morals. So even though I liked him I just thought nope these are things that aren’t going to fly in the long run.
So now I’m just done for a while!!
I think if I focus on some personal goals it will help boost my self confidence and maybe then I’ll get back to feeling like looking. Or I won’t.
But yes I felt like Anne was accurate as far as I can tell about the situation and it would be nice if he was thinking of me and if we could reconnect down the road... but I’m not going to pass up an attraction if something comes along. The info I keep getting from Cookie and Anne and almost every other reader I’ve thought could possibly be accurate is that he hasn’t been ready yet ... and it really makes sense to me that that could be actually true considering he and his wife had just separated 2 months before we met.
So maybe it just needs time... like Divine Love said also... so I’m really good with just going with the flow. Maybe someone else will come along for me or maybe not. I don’t know. But I’m good either way. And definitely binge-calling less and less thankfully. But still not out of the woods on that part maybe.
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That's exactly wher I am at right now. I have 2 general email readings pending, but I think I am done. I have enough positive things going on. My oldest daughter became a Director in her job, I am putting my middle child through college and she made deans list, and my youngest child is gifted and a math prodigy. My job is great and I'm still growing my career. All as a single mom. I got this. It would be nice to share it with someone, but I don't NEED to. Some dude will be lucky enough someday to make the cut. Lol
star1:
--- Quote from: flora0250 on December 07, 2018, 07:02:25 PM ---Thanks so much Star & Kat....Feel comfortable with where I’m at which is focusing on my work and my child and being a mom and making ends meet and trying to find time to do things I enjoy. Honestly that’s quite a lot right now. I did it before alone... I’ve done it all this time alone... I like myself and don’t feel like I want to be “out there looking” right now.
I went on a few dates with a few different men after my POI and I stopped seeing each other. but for various reasons for each I just wasn’t into them. For good reasons though! One guy seemed to have a really negative vibe and like he had just gotten out of jail. Really aggressive feeling and I ended it as quick as I could. Another guy used a derogatory minority slur. A third guy was just way too far away to really pursue (an hour and a half) for being only meh about. And the fourth just had some serious deep value differences religiously and morals. So even though I liked him I just thought nope these are things that aren’t going to fly in the long run.
So now I’m just done for a while!!
I think if I focus on some personal goals it will help boost my self confidence and maybe then I’ll get back to feeling like looking. Or I won’t.
But yes I felt like Anne was accurate as far as I can tell about the situation and it would be nice if he was thinking of me and if we could reconnect down the road... but I’m not going to pass up an attraction if something comes along. The info I keep getting from Cookie and Anne and almost every other reader I’ve thought could possibly be accurate is that he hasn’t been ready yet ... and it really makes sense to me that that could be actually true considering he and his wife had just separated 2 months before we met.
So maybe it just needs time... like Divine Love said also... so I’m really good with just going with the flow. Maybe someone else will come along for me or maybe not. I don’t know. But I’m good either way. And definitely binge-calling less and less thankfully. But still not out of the woods on that part maybe.
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You're welcome. As long as you're taking things in your stride for you, then you're going at your own steady pace. I also was like you, I talked to a few guys and it didn't work out, so your mind wonders back to your POI and you naturally begin comparing "he's not like my POI. My POI was more handsome/kinder/funnier/we had similar views". It's really difficult to try and date and see people. You tried it and it didn't work for you so far, so it's healthy to realise that you have goals in place to keep you working to great achievements.
Jpod2:
I’ve read with her twice. I didn’t experience a condescending attitude, but felt her readings were kind of general “he’s confused, he’s not committed really to this other person, it won’t work out, he’s doing a lot of soul searching, etc...” I did ask he if he would ever contact me again and she said yes both times. She gave me timing in my first reading, but I’ve learned to not outright ask for it anymore. In my second reading she said, with no prompting, “I’m getting a 2”....she then asked if we broke up 2 months ago. No, that wasn’t right. She then said “I feel like you will hear within 2 months, 2 weeks feels too soon.” I guess I’m curious if anyone else has insight on her numbers? I feel like everyone assumes a date or period of time, but when she gives numbers is that what it is?
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