@synergy: I would just say that if you are disillusioned by ANY reader, just throw out everything they say - discard it from your mind and don't focus on it at all. May be hard to do, I know, but maybe helpful to get back an emotional balance.
I know I did this when I myself became disillusioned by psychics, and relying on their word. I discarded certain things said by most readers, things that just did not resonate or that I knew to be completely untrue.
Like another person on here said, you can get 3 good readings, and 1 bad one, and you tend to focus on that, and get even MORE readings from others to cancel out the ONE bad...I don't know who on here said it, but so true in my case, at least.