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hellonurse:
They did didn't they? I don't remember where exactly, but I do remember reading a post by you stating that you would have to choose between 2. Idk what you should do. I'm trying to put myself in your situation right now and if it were me, I would go to lunch with C. But thats because I'm reminding myself of all the bs the ex put me through, and based on that, if it were me, I wouldn't go with the ex. BUT that's just me. Or flip a coin, that's how I make a lot of my small decisions....sad but true. LOL!  ;)

Synergy:
glasshalffull and hellonurse,

Many readers sure did say this.  Avalon, Raven, Sandy Esther, Bonniesha, and the list goes on and on.  They told me my ex would come back around and that I'd have to choose. 

I'm not going with the ex, and I'm going to keep doing what I've been doing for the past few weeks.  I'm not going to seek him out or initiate any communication with him, and I'm going to focus on Chance.  My ex needs to do way more than ask me to lunch if his intention really is to get me back. 

Thanks for your advice!!!  This has all been so difficult!!! 

positivethoughts2:
Synergy - So nice to see a prediction happening. :) Good luck navigating it all!!

hellonurse:
Good girl! Enjoy your lunch date and just live in the now. If and when the time comes where a choice needs to be made....well I guess we'll cross that bridge then. For now, just do what you've been doing and you're right, you need a whole lot more than a lunch invite. You need a declaration and confession from the heart!!!

Yay for you!!!

Tango:
I agree with what you said earlier about there being a strong connection with you and the ex. I'm sure it's not just a one-way street either. He can probably feel you pulling away, and with not passing his exam again, he is probably looking for some comfort. I think that's probably why he is looking to you, because you sound like you were something good and stable in his life. Perhaps it was also an attempt for pity? Maybe he hoped that you would feel bad about his exam and that that would be enough to make you say yes to his lunch invitation.

I'm glad that you stood your ground even though it was really hard. He definitely needs to try harder and prove himself if he wants you back! Besides, since you already had plans with Chance, enjoy them and have fun! You deserve to be with a man who pays attention to you and enjoys your company!

You had mentioned that Chance is a great guy, but you still have feelings for the ex. I understand this too because I have felt the exact same way but I think you are doing the right thing right now though by focusing on Chance. I'm no psychic, but I think that maybe your ex will start coming around more and will try to invite you to something else. I think that you not saying yes to him came as being unexpected to him and he probably won't just disappear. At this moment, he is probably wondering why you didn't say yes.

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