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Tango:
That's awesome Synergy! I'm so happy that predictions are passing for people! I'm hoping to try SE as well fairly soon. I will probably try calling Roxies Gift and Cookie as well.
Do you think that maybe your ex can sense that you're moving on and that's why he is starting to come forward a bit more? It seems like when you allowed yourself to be interested in someone new, that's when the ex started coming to see you at work. It's terrible timing, but I'm happy that you are happy with this new man right now. It sounds like you are doing great! Keep us updated :)
Synergy:
Thanks, everyone! I'm really excited about this new man in my life. Last night he told me that I amaze him on a daily basis. He told me that he can't believe how any man could have me and then do something to lose me because I'm a catch. I've never felt so special. I'm also really happy that we've both have opened up with each other about our past relationships. It allows us to understand each other better. I know that there are great men out there for you all, as well... it may even be the ex that you're waiting for. Just believe it, and it'll happen. It didn't happen the way I expected it to, but I found a good man nonetheless.
Tango,
I truly believe that my ex and I have an intense connection. I really do think that he feels my energy pulling away, and that's why he has been initiating so much interaction with me. After I posted on here yesterday, he came to see me again. He asked me if I was happy that he was back at work. His energy was very anxious and nervous. I was very short and kind of cold to him though, which is completely unlike me. I just don't want to do anything to hurt Chance, and I don't know what my ex is thinking at this point anyways.
If he does open up to me and asks for me back (which I really highly doubt), it would be terrible timing, as you say Tango. If I am honest with you all, as convinced I am that Chance is amazing and everything I could ever want in a man, there is a large part of my heart that only wants my ex. Logically though, I know that he has never shown any interest in my children, and I cannot accept a man who doesn't see himself as part of my family. I wish Raven, Roxie, Jacqueline, and so many other readers had been right about him wanting to meet my children, but it didn't happen, so I'm moving on.
hellonurse:
Synergy,
Most readers will tell you to follow your heart, but like you said, logically it makes more sense to be with the other. Since you don't really have the option of choosing at this time, you must just continue forward with Chance. I too was in a similar situation, waiting on a man that everyone kept telling me was coming back while dating another, but not really giving him too much time or energy. Just sitting around pining for someone else while being in the presence of another. Looking back now I feel bad, but am so thankful he was patient with me.
Now I'm able to appreciate the new man more and more each day. My ex wouldn't do half the stuff this new guy does, sure that "passion/connection" isn't there. But when I'm sick I'll know the new guy will be by my side with a bowl of chicken soup. And that is way better than all that infatuation nonsense. Because at the end of the day when passion and connection have faded, what you really need is a man that is unselfish, and basically THERE, in every sense of the word.
So having said all that, lets leave 2011 in the past and start 2012 new!
P.S. Read with someone new yesterday. Her name is Michelle Answers, she's on keen. She's a tarot reader and I thought she was on point with describing both men and gave me a realistic idea of what the road would be like with each of them. If anyone is interested.
Synergy:
My ex just came to see me and asked me to lunch!! Ugh! When I told him I had other plans (because I do with Chance), the look on his face was devastating. Then he broke the news to me... He didn't pass the CA Baby Bar... again. This was the 3rd time he took it. I really wanted to hug him and tell him it would all be ok, but I didn't. I didn't say much of anything. I feel awful.
I don't understand why he's coming to me now. Now that I'm exploring a new opportunity. I don't know what to do. It was only an invitation to lunch, but I feel him wanting to come closer. :(
glasshalffull:
--- Quote from: Synergy on December 13, 2011, 09:33:00 AM ---My ex just came to see me and asked me to lunch!! Ugh! When I told him I had other plans (because I do with Chance), the look on his face was devastating. Then he broke the news to me... He didn't pass the CA Baby Bar... again. This was the 3rd time he took it. I really wanted to hug him and tell him it would all be ok, but I didn't. I didn't say much of anything. I feel awful.
I don't understand why he's coming to me now. Now that I'm exploring a new opportunity. I don't know what to do. It was only an invitation to lunch, but I feel him wanting to come closer. :(
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Did any of the psychis see this happening?
For what you describe you might want to concentrate on Chance, if you are pragmatic that is.
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