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Don't Listen to Them

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Krullisepic:
I'm one of those people who relied on psychics not just for advice and insight, but when making major life decisions. I regret it deeply, though I understand how easy it is to fall into that pattern when some of them are able to accurately predict contact and motivations involving a person of interest.

One told me years ago not to buy my car and i almost followed her advice because she was extremely accurate about other things. Fast forward 6 years and that car hardly ever gave me any problems. It has been the best car ever. 

But recently, I trusted one psychic too much when it came to a move, and I'm angry with myself for following her advice. Yes, she was accurate about many things, but when it came to the bigger picture, I wish her prediction hadn't scared me into relocating to a new town. She told me my partner would cheat on me if 1. I stayed in that town and 2. if i lived apart for too long because of work. She said that once we moved, our relationship would grow stronger and we'd finally be living together.

Sure enough, a few months after we settled into our new place, he got into a car accident and had to take a job in a town two hours away because they offered free room and board, and he didn't need transportation. He never cheated on me, but even after my move, we still ended up living apart due to our work situations. She said we'd be fine after the move, but we're not. Our relationship is in shambles because of fear and because I followed the advice of psychics I came to trust. I wish I had never moved. I wish I had never listened to her. He keeps asking me sometimes why i ask him certain questions or offended so easily. he can always tell when I just got a psychic reading because the energy in the house is different.

She even told me he was eventually going to leave me, after I specifically said I didn't want to see that far into the future. Who wants to hear that about their partner and have that prediction hanging over their entire relationship?

And then there was another psychic I stopped speaking with because every time we talked, her predictions for my relationship got worse and worse. There was always a new woman she claimed to see around him. She had me so paranoid that she convinced me he had lied about selling his car. I followed her advice on something else and it ended up blowing up in my face. It made our relationship even worse. I fact checked previous readings and I noticed as time went by her predictions were completely wrong and insights on folks were not true. The readings end up being less and less accurate and now I'm so paranoid because of them. 

I don't want to fall into the category of a sugarcoated fantasy customer but I cannot help but notice the effect of readings over my life. 

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