Healing from Break-Ups and Manifestation

[Dejatu]

Okay- I went on another binge and obviously has made me feel even worse.

I am not sure if the readings today are picking up on my energy, because today I felt SO low. The first thing that came to my mind is that my POI is moving on and probably never coming back because I've seen no movement.

Funny thing is- one of the readers predicted this mood in the spread, a card directly before it gets better. My previous readings about 90% of readers (a lot of the heavy hitters here) say he will be back, and today it feels like most of the readers are saying he will not be.

So this brings me to my question....how in the world do we grieve healthily and move-on from a break-up in ways that don't impact manifestation. I am having such a hard time with this and feeling like my efforts to move-on (i.e. thinking solely about the negative parts of the relationship, focusing on why it wasn't working, focusing on the lessons) are starting to make me feel like I am throwing such negative energy at the situation. Which may result in me not getting the outcome I want... anyway- if you got this far, thanks for listening to my rant and I'm open to tips.

[Dejatu]

Thank you dragonflyer for your motivating words! You’re so right.

I’ve read the first book, and I’ve dusted it off to give it another read. Ordered the other two. 🫶🏽

[Dejatu]

Thank you both! I think this evening, I’ll write down some of the quotes you shared in my journal so I have something to go back to and re-read when I’m feeling icky. I know all of these negative emotions will subside eventually, but gosh- I wish I could speed up time. Trying to detach from the outcome as well, but it’s so hard when you( by you I mean me lol) have OCD & generalized anxiety disorder.