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Readers changing their predictions according to what happens

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jackY:
I started a thread on this ages ago. Your "advisor" was an a-hole. Typically, when I say-hey, it's not looking like this is going to go the way you said-I got blocked. Done. Done. Done.

Supermeggs12:

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--- Quote from: Supermeggs12 on March 16, 2024, 09:38:35 PM ---The gaslighting is crazy. I had been asking a psychic for advice on my current situation with a guy. I had been talking about whether or not I should confront him about something I had found out was a lie. This psychic told me I should confront him about it and encouraged me to do it. I later decided not to confront him and that it was in my best interest to move on. I told this psychic about my final decision not to confront. This psychic did a complete 180 and told me that confronting him was obviously a horrible decision and that I make bad decisions, completely flipping what they had told me before about it being a good decision. I’m still really confused about this. I don’t appreciate being gaslit, and I don’t even understand what the purpose of gaslighting me was here. Was it to make me feel even worse? This feels unethical.

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Not to make you feel worse - likely to protect themselves from giving advice in the first place, that was prob not psychic...

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Honestly, it’s a bad look when a psychic can’t admit that they were wrong. Instead, they jump to blaming you or gaslighting you about what they had predicted. The psychic I mentioned in my post has gotten some things right in the past, so I’m not sure if I should throw the baby out with the bath water. I just really don’t like how he flipped his words and tried to call me out for “making bad decisions.” I think he did this to distract me from seeing his failure to accurately see the full picture of the situation. He also tried to distract me from another prediction he had gotten wrong. I was already at a low point when I was talking to this psychic, and he made it worse by gaslighting me. Many people are already at low points or struggling when they consult psychics/mediums, so I just feel they should be more compassionate and understanding to those who ask them for guidance.

Santina69:
 Its ok for a Reader to change predictions at times, Sometimes depending on certain decisions that you make changes your path. That is not uncommon... Just like a drunk that doesn't get help, or doesn't have the courage to change, His future is kind of predictable where its headed..

I do palmistry and lines do change as you age, depending on how you change emotionally.
 I've read a hand once with a short and weak relationship line. I've explained to the person to take chances in life , and to believe that having fate in love, and make changes in their life.

Next time I saw them, that line was a lot longer and more thicker.

So sometimes a card reader can change predictions too..

PsyGurl:
Yes, I’ve had it happen. They tell you he loves you, all is well, etc so you’re happy with the reading and hopefully for them, give a stellar review…then when prediction doesn’t happen they push the time frame back or say it’s “free will”. There are many fake readers who do this. They never saw the other party,or assured me there was no one else, even though I knew deep down inside. They play on your hopes, for ratings. And the few times I would call back to say there is definitely another party, I saw them together, etc. they would say they’re just friends, she’s like family. Nope. Lesson learned, listen to my own intuition.


--- Quote from: Mayra92 on March 08, 2024, 05:32:57 PM ---Hi everyone, sorry for my bad English. I read a lot on Bitwine and noticed that the readers change their predictions and versions according to what I say to them about my POI.

It was all fairy tale and "he loves you" etc... until things started to be very difficult with him.

90% of the readers that knew my story suddenly changed their predictions when I told them that contact prediction or meeting prediction did not happen. And said it was all my fault and started giving really negative and pessimist future predictions. Like a total flip. NONE of them admitted to be wrong, and to be honest, only 1 answered my message about the bad updates. The others ignored me or even apologized.

My POI stopped contact with me after a little fight on the phone, and when I told the readers, they all said at the time that he would come back, that we would meet soon etc... Now they're like : its your fault, what a shame, you're the vilain in the story etc...

I'm really pissed off that none of them admits that they were wrong and just go with the flow.

Did it happen to you to ? you tell them some good news they tell a fairy tale and when something goes wrong, suddenly its all dark and you're guilty argh ... ?!

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