For anyone who has readings about a POI...

[Chitowngirl]

I've gone on binges on and off and am currently on one now. It's about a guy I have a connection with. (Tale as old as time). I go on here, see who's gotten a lot of positive feedback and see if I can catch them. Please no judgement on the binging. It's my disposable income so it is what it is, that being said, I realize it's not super healthy.

What I wanted to ask about is if any of you out there who are also asking about people you like, date, are interested in or whatever. Are you also getting this feedback?

-He likes you but it doing healing work due to past wounds/relationships
-He will come forward to you within (x) amount of time and be more consistent
-He finds you alluring and he has a magnetic attraction to you
-He guards his heart
-He's inconsistent and hot and cold with you
-He wasn't emotionally available in the past but he's working on that now

I'm seeing a LOT of the same themes and getting a lot of the same feedback and trust me when I say I've talked to a lot of these people, both men and women. I try to go to ones where I see that they'll tell you the "honest, brutal truth."

Anyway, either all of these people are correct and the man I like is easy to read OR they're telling to this to everyone who comes to them who is asking about someone that they're not necessarily in a relationship with but would like to be.

So please lmk if you've all heard the same from literally everyone out there. There have been maybe 2 people ever who were like, "Nahh, he's not interested."

Thanks!

[Chitowngirl]

yes, that is absolutely true! That's why I wanted to put this on here because I see patterns in things I'm being told that I believe are spot on for my situation but I also realize they can be generalized for advice on anyone who is in a romantic situation they aren't sure about. So it's a crapshoot for sure!

[aquagirl]

There are only so many reasons you can be having issues with a man. Ive had similar around a couple but not all. While there are advisors that will use cold reading general terms because the odds are you'll identify with it., many times it's the case. I just feel many of us have the similar situations in different wrappers.  i can usually tell if its sunshine blown up my arse by the rest of the call. 

Its hard to establish a pattern. For many people their way of speaking and using analogies can come across as saying the same to other people. but like i said there are only so many combinations of situations , that people are bound to get similar language.

It doesn't mean they are wrong or even fake. But there are many who are so i understand how difficult it is to swim through them.

[Chitowngirl]

Thanks, I completely agree! It's just hard to discern between all of them being correct in picking up the same thing over and over or as you said, it's their way of being pretty vague but knowing it can sound very accurate. I guess I just tried taking a step back to really read these readings again and see if they were actually very specific as in said something that no one would just randomly throw out or just saying things that could be transcribed to many situations. Once time has passed I'll keep the forum updated on who was right or wrong.

[Sincity2]

Believe the ones who said no. Honestly I heard alllll those things. All BS

[Chitowngirl]

Yes, as much as I don’t want to, I agree with you.

[Chitowngirl]

Thank you so much, I will definitely check out this video. I appreciate your thoughts and advice here. Love that quote too!

[Frideswide]

Yes, as much as I don’t want to, I agree with you.

I wouldn't believe the ones who say no either because in my experience, they have been wrong too. They are also ones who like to give tough love cliches like, "if he is not showing up for you now, it means he never will." bla bla bla

[Chitowngirl]

HAHA! This is soooo true! I'm at a place right now where I'm just taking a step back and relaxing. I'll update this if anything transpires but I think I have allllll of the information I can get at this point in time in my situation so there's nothing really to read into at the moment and just let life take it's course.

[Rayban212]

What about “he sees you as someone long term” 😅😅

Anyone else get this?

[Natashanyc]

I think a lot of these lines are stock lines and signs of cold reading especially that hot/cold GARBAGE. If you have a botanica or Babalawo in your area try reading with them if they’re genuine. Or a decent clairvoyant/spiritually talented person who gives u facts only u would know about your situation instead of lines that can relate to anyone

[Lys]

I tried this reader and everything was wrong. It’s been a  long time.

[Rav2202]

Believe the ones who said no. Honestly I heard alllll those things. All BS

Not necessarily. A former POI I called on, everyone said yes but I listened to a few who said “no, he’s done” and I believed them just for my former POI to come back and try to reconcile with me a few months later and kept trying every so often from Oct 2021 to Dec 2022 until I completely shut it down.

[Chitowngirl]

I LOVE this story! I keep seeing tiktok videos of people say, "They always come back!" I also kind of love that by the time this person did, you were over it. HAHA!

[Rav2202]

I LOVE this story! I keep seeing tiktok videos of people say, "They always come back!" I also kind of love that by the time this person did, you were over it. HAHA!

Right! I made the decision to not go back into things with him and he kept trying every so often so I'm not sure why people think the few who say "no" are always right. I originally believed that from the reading the boards and the "yes" Psychics were right. I don't remember the list because it was 2 years ago but the majority were right.