I’m not saying your reading is or isn’t correct but I’m curious what the back story here is? I mean you say your POI is ghosting you. Does she not trust you in someway or was there an argument to make her do this? If POI is closed off how do you know anything she is thinking about work? Maybe she wants to? Just saying these things are just thoughts. Maybe she does want you to be more open and communicati ng but right now the way you’re trying to communicate isn’t what she feels is “open” Females are emotional creatures and your idea of open isn’t the same as ours.
Back story: I am completely open and communicati
ve we would talk daily about everything. Met a controlling scumbag in her area that made her all the promises in the world. He is an ex boyfriend that promised to help her after she left her husband. She does want more money but has no license, no car, no job, and she is staying with him for a roof over her head but he controls her and is abusive financially and emotionally
. She doesn’t leave because he doesn’t hit her. I am more than willing to support in every way:emotionally, financially, physically—but she is afraid of her feelings and doesn’t want to feel right now with so much on her plate. She has to worry about the divorce, finding a job, getting her kids back—but now that this guy has her there he isn’t helping her with any of that. She is embarrassed and afraid to call or communicate with me because she thinks I’ll be angry. Her mom has relayed all of this by the way. Thinks she made a terrible mistake because she went for a rebound with someone she knew and was with before. Good enough or would you like more?
