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Intuition/Fear vs Readers?

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snowbell:


We aren't really friends so we don't communicate on the phone or text. He is someone from my past. I don't know if he likes me for sure because he hasn't said so. I've had my intuition lie to me in the past when I have been anxious, which is why I am not trusting it. But the business chat piece is not sitting right with me. The messaging app does have a lot of groups, professiona l groups also....unl ess this is what they are catching... .if he is on there chatting relating to his profession, which could mean business or related to work. What was weird is that all three readers I consulted said finances and related to work.

snowbell:


I'll PM message you :-)

pfizer:
if you are interested in him but he is not making any move romanticall y; then no need to think if he has a gf or not; coz he is not making a move
if he is making a move then ask him

i wont go to a reader to ask something which i can find it out myself.

Calleronhiatus:

--- Quote from: snowbell on March 04, 2020, 03:12:33 PM ---Has anyone been in a situation where all the readers said the same thing but your intuition said something else? I should use the word fear in my case instead of intuition actually.

So I have been seeing him online on a messaging app a lot and my fears automatical ly are telling me that maybe he's talking to a woman. We are not in a relationshi p so I can't question him. I have consulted a few readers and no woman ever comes up. Pretty much all of them say it's out of boredom and has to do something with finances. However, I see him online during office hours or late at night also.

I met him a week ago and he actually made an effort to have a conversatio n with me and was warmer than he has been in the past. I want to believe what the readers are telling me, that he will come around but my fears are telling me something else.

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I understand that feeling well. Fear is really easy to give into. Trust your instincts but keep an optimistic heart.

snowbell:

--- Quote from: Calleronhiatus on March 04, 2020, 08:42:20 PM ---
--- Quote from: snowbell on March 04, 2020, 03:12:33 PM ---Has anyone been in a situation where all the readers said the same thing but your intuition said something else? I should use the word fear in my case instead of intuition actually.

So I have been seeing him online on a messaging app a lot and my fears automatical ly are telling me that maybe he's talking to a woman. We are not in a relationshi p so I can't question him. I have consulted a few readers and no woman ever comes up. Pretty much all of them say it's out of boredom and has to do something with finances. However, I see him online during office hours or late at night also.

I met him a week ago and he actually made an effort to have a conversatio n with me and was warmer than he has been in the past. I want to believe what the readers are telling me, that he will come around but my fears are telling me something else.

--- End quote ---

I understand that feeling well. Fear is really easy to give into. Trust your instincts but keep an optimistic heart.

--- End quote ---

I love this phrase, "Trust your instincts but keep an optimistic heart." Thank you!

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