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--- Quote from: Loulou on September 19, 2019, 04:50:42 PM ---Let go of timing immediately the more you cling to it the more it will move and the more you will be disappointed
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I can’t stress this point enough!!! I feel like I read so many reviews regarding how the timing was off and just because of that the psychic may be a fraud. That’s not true at all. Timing is tricky and can always change. If you’re holding onto the timing instead of the end result, it may delay it or not even happen. The best thing to do is focus on the overall outcome. What’s meant to be will happen whether it’s tomorrow or one month from now. With that being said I also think it’s important for the psychics to tell their client, “Hey look, timing isn’t always guaranteed since that’s one of the harder things to predict but I do see your POI coming back later this year.” Otherwise I feel like too many people get disappointed when things don’t happen within a certain timeframe.

Loulou:
Totally agree.   As I said this worked for me, but it might not work for everyone.  I’m 10 years into getting readings and thought I’d offer hindsight from my view alone.

Your points are valid too




--- Quote from: Still tired on September 21, 2019, 01:57:52 PM ---All of these things sound like good advice in general, but there are a lot of different things that can go wrong with readings where as a client you cannot manage or control the way it goes. Even the best psychics who tell you mind blowing things can still get things wrong, or give advice that is not right for you. I would advise everyone to trust yourself, above any other suggestion. If you feel like something is off with a reading, trust that. Keeping an open mind to what psychics have to say is very risky.


--- Quote from: Loulou on September 19, 2019, 04:50:42 PM ---Sadly I have seen on here that so many excellent readers have been badly treated and scared by the comments and feedback because people make assumptions.  It is often for me the ones that have been the most help and I feel that if you kept an open mind many people would see it too.
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Hmmn well I don't know what readers you are talking about or how they got badly treated. Here's the thing, a psychic can be really helpful for one person and also be awful for someone else. Some of that may be subjective and yes if you kept an open mind you might see it a different way. But our subjective perspective is part of who we are, our experiences, preferences, and so on. It's important to honor that and not throw it aside for sake of keeping an open mind. Those psychics who helped you could be genuinely bad for someone else. There's also the possibility that you haven't yet seen the full impact on your life of those readings.

It's very difficult to manage all of the expectations and emotions that are stirred up by psychic readings. It's so easy to say things like, be realistic, but being realistic it doesn't always work that way.

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Star_01:

--- Quote from: Still tired on September 21, 2019, 01:57:52 PM ---All of these things sound like good advice in general, but there are a lot of different things that can go wrong with readings where as a client you cannot manage or control the way it goes. Even the best psychics who tell you mind blowing things can still get things wrong, or give advice that is not right for you. I would advise everyone to trust yourself, above any other suggestion. If you feel like something is off with a reading, trust that. Keeping an open mind to what psychics have to say is very risky.


--- Quote from: Loulou on September 19, 2019, 04:50:42 PM ---Sadly I have seen on here that so many excellent readers have been badly treated and scared by the comments and feedback because people make assumptions.  It is often for me the ones that have been the most help and I feel that if you kept an open mind many people would see it too.
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Hmmn well I don't know what readers you are talking about or how they got badly treated. Here's the thing, a psychic can be really helpful for one person and also be awful for someone else. Some of that may be subjective and yes if you kept an open mind you might see it a different way. But our subjective perspective is part of who we are, our experiences, preferences, and so on. It's important to honor that and not throw it aside for sake of keeping an open mind. Those psychics who helped you could be genuinely bad for someone else. There's also the possibility that you haven't yet seen the full impact on your life of those readings.

It's very difficult to manage all of the expectations and emotions that are stirred up by psychic readings. It's so easy to say things like, be realistic, but being realistic it doesn't always work that way.

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I totally agree with this. I've been on the receiving end and witnessed others who got overly defensive of a reader because that reader was good for them, but maybe not for me or someone else. There are 2 sides to every story and one person may well have had a shitty experience with a reader regardless of if someone else has or hasn't, readers can be a good reader but an unethical and bad person or not be gifted and be unpleasant but for one or two people happened to strike lucky. That being said, readers I'm sure have had unpleasant things said or accused about them and that is unfair behaviour if untrue and can be quite damaging. Usually if it's 1 person or 2 people it can sometimes be put down to trouble making or not liking what they had to hear, but when multiples of people are saying the same comments on a reader it's hard to trust that reader. I will say that I have witnessed some pretty shitty and underhand behaviour either by myself or people have contacted me privately feeling uncomfortable to speak up about top readers mentioned on here and some readers manage to get away with alot of sneaky behaviour. I personally believe if a reader abuses a gift that they have they lose it and as much as boards like these are hated by psychics sometimes the boards are good karma for dodgy readers to lose business which sometimes they genuinely deserve. We all have witnessed a user get way too defensive of a reader that they like just because the reader has scored well for them, and we all have to remember that they are readers and one may connect well to some and not for others. It's all well and good saying don't assume a reader searches you up online but I think after recent events it's better and safer to be careful and reserved, and if multiple users are coming forth with proof they can't all be lying surely.

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