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The Fidget Chronicles
naturegirl:
Hi Fidget. I remember you posting a long time ago that some psychic saw him drinking a lot. Who was that, do you remember? Are you still opposed to contacting him?
Fidget1028:
--- Quote from: naturegirl on October 04, 2019, 07:26:59 AM ---Hi Fidget. I remember you posting a long time ago that some psychic saw him drinking a lot. Who was that, do you remember? Are you still opposed to contacting him?
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A few saw the drinking...Gail, Mattie come to mind. I won't contact him. I did that for a year and it never went anywhere. I can only assume we each have our own lessons to learn. The timing was crazy though. It's true that when you stop putting energy into it, they start resurfacing. Even if it's not in a significant or meaningful way. Yona told me to expect the unexpected through October. Damn, that's been true in all aspects of my life lately.
KotaSwan:
--- Quote from: Fidget1028 on September 18, 2019, 02:37:22 PM ---The Fidget Chronicles - Part 2 - The Career Chronicles
So, as of late I've been re-evaluating my career. I love my job and my company, but unfortunately the project that I have worked tirelessly on is winding down (successfully). So I was caught between the following options: stay where I am busying myself with helping out on other projects waiting for the next "big" project in the pipeline, staying in my company, but moving to a new area permanently, or looking outside my company.
The woman who hired me 13 years ago (my manager's manager) suggested I look into another area within my company where there is a ton of work and a lot of open positions. It would be a new area for me, but room for growth, both from a project standpoint as well as a possible promotion (if I could leverage it). She suggested I call the hiring manager for this new area and get a feel for the open positions. So I did and he wanted to meet with me and asked for my CV. I met with him today and the meeting went exceptionally well. He was floored by my experience, mentioned that this would involve project and people management, and that no one else internally has even applied. He suggested that I formally apply for the positions and looks forward to meet with me again soon. For all intents and purposes, it looks like I could very well get the job and he mentioned that he may even make it a higher level position (Associate Director) if he gets the right "fit". My company is a very large, well known company, so this is pretty big news.
Yona: In my original reading in March, she said the focus of my reading was around "meetings and interviews".
Kisha: In my original general email from 12/18, she said in March I would have a good review/feedback on my job performance, but there wouldn't be any big financial gain (true), but that it would come later. She felt I would reap the financial benefits later in the year, and she felt October stood out.
Mattie: Although when I read with her in July about my POI #1, she asked if I was considering a job change. I told her it was possible, that I was still toying with the idea. She said she felt that the possible job change was a timing marker for things to move forward with POI #1.
So there you have it. I'll post updates.
Disclaimer: Please, please, PLEASE don't go on reading tangents because of my saga. I haven't gotten any readings since August and I seriously don't suggest anyone bingeing. I don't plan on ever going down the rabbit hole again. Things have been moving more since I STOPPED getting readings. Just food for thought...
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SO happy to see these updates and very excited for you. Thank you for sharing this. I do feel that personally too that things start happening and moving when I step away from readings for a while. <3 <3 <3
Fidget1028:
The Fidget Chronicles - The Week from Hell and My Weird LOA Moment
I'm on the fence about LOA. I don't think I could ever be successful with it anyway, because I can't seem to give something I want to the universe and let it go. I obsess over it. I chew it up like gum, stick it somewhere until I want to chew it some more and pull it back out. I'm not patient and I don't trust something I can't see to take care of things for me. I'm a control freak. It's definitely one of my shortcomings.
So last week SUCKED. I didn't get the job I really wanted. To make it worse, I was the lead candidate until my boss heard about it and snatched it out from under me. It was political and there was nothing I could do. It was an injustice. I felt betrayed by more than a few people, but mainly the manager that I trusted with my career development. I had a few people who were there for me and I'm pulling myself together. At the same time, my POI showed up on social media and there were pics of him doing things that I still wish we could be doing together. It was pretty emotional.
So, during all this turmoil, I asked myself what I wanted. It's funny, but I'm pretty easy to please and don't "need" a lot. I distinctly said to myself "if I just could put an extra $1000 in savings, I would feel a lot better". I know, it's not a lot, but like I said, I really don't need it, but if I wanted something, more money would be it. I laughed to myself and went about my day.
Thursday, I reminded my ex husband via text that he owes me for our son's aftercare (about $100). I have to "remind" him because he'll stall whenever it comes to chipping in money. So I saw him Thursday night and he handed me an envelope with the check. Friday night I open it so I can make a deposit and there were 2 checks. One for aftercare and a separate check for $1000!!!!! Exactly $1000!! He said to put it towards our daughter's college expenses. This was after he already gave me money for that a couple of months ago. It was completely unsolicited and is now in savings for the loan payments that I make for her tuition. So there's that. There might be something to this whole LOA thing. I just have to ask for something like it's a big joke before it actually works for me. LOL
Star_01:
--- Quote from: Fidget1028 on October 07, 2019, 12:47:24 PM ---The Fidget Chronicles - The Week from Hell and My Weird LOA Moment
I'm on the fence about LOA. I don't think I could ever be successful with it anyway, because I can't seem to give something I want to the universe and let it go. I obsess over it. I chew it up like gum, stick it somewhere until I want to chew it some more and pull it back out. I'm not patient and I don't trust something I can't see to take care of things for me. I'm a control freak. It's definitely one of my shortcomings.
So last week SUCKED. I didn't get the job I really wanted. To make it worse, I was the lead candidate until my boss heard about it and snatched it out from under me. It was political and there was nothing I could do. It was an injustice. I felt betrayed by more than a few people, but mainly the manager that I trusted with my career development. I had a few people who were there for me and I'm pulling myself together. At the same time, my POI showed up on social media and there were pics of him doing things that I still wish we could be doing together. It was pretty emotional.
So, during all this turmoil, I asked myself what I wanted. It's funny, but I'm pretty easy to please and don't "need" a lot. I distinctly said to myself "if I just could put an extra $1000 in savings, I would feel a lot better". I know, it's not a lot, but like I said, I really don't need it, but if I wanted something, more money would be it. I laughed to myself and went about my day.
Thursday, I reminded my ex husband via text that he owes me for our son's aftercare (about $100). I have to "remind" him because he'll stall whenever it comes to chipping in money. So I saw him Thursday night and he handed me an envelope with the check. Friday night I open it so I can make a deposit and there were 2 checks. One for aftercare and a separate check for $1000!!!!! Exactly $1000!! He said to put it towards our daughter's college expenses. This was after he already gave me money for that a couple of months ago. It was completely unsolicited and is now in savings for the loan payments that I make for her tuition. So there's that. There might be something to this whole LOA thing. I just have to ask for something like it's a big joke before it actually works for me. LOL
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I'm sorry to hear you had a shit week and hope that things improve for you soon, Fidget. I'm glad you got some payment support at least, to me it sounds more like synchronisation. Kinda like when I've had conversations on a specific subject with a friend and it came up on TV moments later or a book I'm reading kind of thing. I hope you are doing well in general though and finding keeping off readings easy enough. I hope a better job comes in for you, you never know that job you didn't get may have been for a reason which you may later find out. Best of luck and looking forward to hearing a hopefully better update next time.
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