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I have a new boyfriend...nobody really predicted this
montauk:
I was in the same boat as you! congrats on finding your joy!
SomethingBetter:
Thanks everyone for your well wishes, and yes, Sparkle you did tell me this. Lol
Idk. I like this new guy and I don’t feel like it’s going super fast simply because we have a lot in common and we grew up in the same areas/went to the same school. We just didn’t know each other.
Don’t get me wrong, it’s a pleasant surprise, I’m just a little (ok a lot) bothered by this. I’m shocked Cookie didn’t see this. Maybe I will try in a month or so to connect with her and see what she licks up now.
I will be writing a longer, more detailed post on Yona in her thread tonight or tomorrow. Her reading really boggles my mind now.
Anyway, I just don’t want to inadvertently hurt someone because I’m trying to move on. Usually I hold on to people for years. So the fact that I’m even willing to talk to another man so soon after the last ex is progress I guess. I deserve to be happy and I deserve the opportunity to move on. I just want to make sure I’m doing the right thing.
Torn, I suppose, is the best way to put it.
ladya:
--- Quote from: SomethingBetter on August 25, 2019, 03:54:54 PM ---Thanks everyone for your well wishes, and yes, Sparkle you did tell me this. Lol
Idk. I like this new guy and I don’t feel like it’s going super fast simply because we have a lot in common and we grew up in the same areas/went to the same school. We just didn’t know each other.
Don’t get me wrong, it’s a pleasant surprise, I’m just a little (ok a lot) bothered by this. I’m shocked Cookie didn’t see this. Maybe I will try in a month or so to connect with her and see what she licks up now.
I will be writing a longer, more detailed post on Yona in her thread tonight or tomorrow. Her reading really boggles my mind now.
Anyway, I just don’t want to inadvertently hurt someone because I’m trying to move on. Usually I hold on to people for years. So the fact that I’m even willing to talk to another man so soon after the last ex is progress I guess. I deserve to be happy and I deserve the opportunity to move on. I just want to make sure I’m doing the right thing.
Torn, I suppose, is the best way to put it.
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good for you SB! always do what's best for you but never settle either. have fun in the meantime. you never know what will be further down the line.
happyk:
SB, a lot has happened in my life recently and nobody saw any of those things, not Yona, not Kisha, not Mattie, Cookie no one but they did happen. So take the good thing you have. I'm very happy for you 🙂
Love2lovenj:
SB so happy to hear such wonderful news. Sometimes the best surprises are the good ones you don't see coming.
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