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What brought me to psychics this time around.

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Cteebaby1:
I really can’t wait u til the person comes back so I can reject the hell out of his ass ! Can’t wait because I REFUSE TO GO BACK

Star_01:
This is the worrying thing about psychics, they are encouraging people to hold on hope in sometimes quite unhealthy situations. It's kinda dangerous because one day they may tell a domestic abuse victim to stay with their partner not knowing what's going on, especially if they really aren't gifted at all.

Cteebaby1, I've been in abusive relationships and these readers didn't pick up that and made him out to be lovely and sweet and he would be back it all sounded Romeo and Juliet. This from what you're saying I'm sorry to sound rude doesn't sound like a healthy situation at all and I know it's hard because you have the feelings there and a child but think what's best for him/her and she doesn't want to see her mum and dad fighting with each other and mum upset then dad upset. Maybe it's for the best that you two are no longer together and I've been in unhappy situations with guys and loved them and wanted them but I knew it didn't serve me any good and I know I shouldn't have allowed myself to be treated like that. The problem is once trust goes it's very very hard to get it back and you'll never fully trust him - so if there is no trust there really is no point of making this work because you'll never be relaxed, you'll always second guess what he is telling you - is it true, when he goes out - is he really going out with friends/shopping or to see a woman? It won't do you any good and your child doesn't want to see their Mum unhappy and stressed and you have to do what's right for you and your child. Think that you could meet someone special who doesn't make you feel small about yourself or mistrust them, or lash out and hit them and everybody deserves someone to make them happy and treat them right. Sorry if I sound judgemental and PM me if you ever need to. Good luck and take care.

Cteebaby1:
I’d be stupid to go back this time! I’m not going to embarrass myself at all. Nobody told me to stay they just tell me he’s going to back and after that it is my decision if I want to accept it. Which I don’t because A he wrecked my car & B he went out searching the minute I cut him off! It’s nothing but a cycle i could take him back but he’ll probably do the same thing again. The trust is gone and the respect so it’ll be very hard to be nice and calm with him.

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