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Every Psychic is a fake
HornetKick:
--- Quote from: Still tired on April 09, 2019, 02:03:53 PM ---Both the exes I called about, knew we were soulmates and said so. The first one recognized it before I did. It never made me think we were meant to be together... in my view many soulmates come and go in life, and sometimes you are only meant to have a brief connection with them. What tripped me up with both of these guys was thinking of them as soulmates blinded me to their bad behavior and how incompatibl e we were. I don't think either of them ever meant to "use" it on me that way, but some of the psychics sure did! They would gloss it over and say, but you have a connection with this man that you won't have with anyone else. That was true! But doesn't mean I should tolerate being treated poorly. This was the big lesson for me, no matter how strongly I feel about someone or how many past lives I remember us having together, or what sorts of synastry we have in our charts, or how much we can read each other's minds or how many special synchronici tes happen and blah blah blah wtf ever, does not mean I should tolerate any mistreatmen t. The first one pretty much literally told me that, admitted he was being horrible to me...he even said "I'm not giving you anything!" But I was absolutely hardheaded and had to go through the whole thing again, with the second ex, who ended up being so nasty that I wouldn't have cared if an angel came down from heaven and decreed, you are meant to be with this man he is your soulmate.
A lot of it too, with the psychics, is some would see what the problems were and say well you don't deserve that, never put up with that or settle for that kind of behavior. They would even say, you're not together because you are being protected from all of that. But the one really bad thing they would say on top of all of that was, HE WILL CHANGE. And because they are supposedly psychic, I held out hope that it would come true. Eventually I realized they just don't really know those things. It seems like they could be right, because they get other things right, but it's a LOT to risk time out of your life on hoping they will be right about someone changing.
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Yeah and part of the problem is that if it comes from a psychic, they must be right because they are so gifted. I learned that the hard way as well. I was with some joe blow and knew...wait, no I felt that no matter what the psychic said, I was getting out of that shit. The reader was local and I would chat with her all the time and had been consulting with her for a very long time, but I felt she just wasn't good with relationshi p situations. She would paint a good story, one where it didn't even appear I was in it because things weren't as good as she saw. She never used any soulmate lingo with me, but I know I clearly would have been in that situation much longer had I listened to her.
Seeker23:
Thank you. His true colors did surface. I do not completely blame her entirely, anymore. But initially it is the first thing to think and psychics told me it was her manipulatio n.
He has freedom of choice, but yes, he has become extremely mean to the point it has becoming a bit angering on my side. Now his stories have changed, nothing he said or the way he acted happen now.
He has become really mean. I was misled by psychics for months that he loved me, etc. The same stock lines. This took me down an emotional path and one of confusion. I was told not to move on, as well. I have one person that still tells me, it is his ex.
I just wrote him off as an nasty man that entered my life and really did not care about me at all and only cared about himself. He has a poor attitude towards women as it is.
It has been a considerabl e amount of time since I had a reading.
I have finally been able to look at other men without guilt, developed a crush on a dental assistant with deep soft dark brown eyes that made me drop looking at him.
Because of what happen, I have fear talking to some men, or even asking one if they are single. I am so afraid what happen with this guy, will happen, again.
Clarita:
--- Quote from: Sparkle002 on April 09, 2019, 12:33:26 PM ---
--- Quote from: tacobelle914 on April 09, 2019, 12:29:47 PM ---There is a reason why they have to say these readings are for 'entertainme nt purposes only'... though, believe me, I have gone through MANY psychic readings (especially when vulnerable) that either sent me spiraling into depression or clinging on to shreds of hope.
And you know what? At the end of the day your own intuition is your best guide.
Yes, things can get really confusing and overwhelmin g and difficult to navigate but at my worst, I was just asking a bunch of strangers for advice and picking apart every single detail, contradicti on, and prediction.
I think it is important, as time goes on, to make a pact with yourself (when you are ready) to only get a reading if you're going to use it more as fuel for thought rather than an accurate map of what is to come. Not only does it stop you from dwelling on the minutiae, but I feel that if there is something to this whole psychic thing, you gotta just live your own life, go with the flow and see what happens. If someone is right, great! But worrying about it constantly serves no one.
Easier said than done, I know! But imho if we all remain fixated on outcomes we are going to miss the here and now completely, and which makes it harder to embrace moments of growth along the way.
If we are not entertained by these psychics and instead depend on them for our happiness, paralyzing ourselves into a state of inaction unless we seek their 'wise' council, then we are not using them for guidance. We are asking them to make life decisions on our behalf, robbing ourselves of self-sovereignty and accountabil ity.
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AGREED 100%!! We definitely have to take some accountabil ity - sometimes it seems people can play the victim or blame everything on readers which should not be the case. You are in charge of your life..not them
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Agree also! This was a great post.
sawthelight:
--- Quote from: Still tired on May 11, 2019, 09:12:21 AM ---
That's how I came to see my situation, and it took a long time for me to see it that way but in the end I am just grateful it never worked out like any of the psychics predicted.
A couple of them tried to play it off like he wasn't really a mean person and he was just being manipulated by a relative to act the way he did. No, he is who he is and chooses to be that way all on his own. And besides if he never had the guts to stand up to his family, then what kind of relationshi p would that be anyway? But they said that would change too, he would stand up to them and assert himself more so we could be together. Nope, never happened.
It's just a a classic tool of the trade, when they say the guy is being manipulated by someone (always by a female.)
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Yes!
Seeker23:
In the same boat. Just finding out he is just a manipulativ e person that has a spiteful nature. He tells a lot of lies then when called out on it, he runs and hides waiting for things to blow over or asks other people to handle things for him. He plays the nice guy routine in the beginning, but his true colors really show.
That is all I ever heard from him, "I am a nice guy, etc." Why not actually be nice to the female gender for once buddy to be proclaimed as a nice guy. Instead, I use to hear...abou t sleeping around...et c from his mouth.
All psychics tried to tell me it was because of someone else or his ex.
My ex has an issue with women in general. He thinks or was raised to believe he was entitled to things, etc.
He, also, would do gas lighting sometimes. The, oh...I never said... etc.
--- Quote from: Still tired on May 11, 2019, 09:12:21 AM ---
That's how I came to see my situation, and it took a long time for me to see it that way but in the end I am just grateful it never worked out like any of the psychics predicted.
A couple of them tried to play it off like he wasn't really a mean person and he was just being manipulated by a relative to act the way he did. No, he is who he is and chooses to be that way all on his own. And besides if he never had the guts to stand up to his family, then what kind of relationshi p would that be anyway? But they said that would change too, he would stand up to them and assert himself more so we could be together. Nope, never happened.
It's just a a classic tool of the trade, when they say the guy is being manipulated by someone (always by a female.)
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