I read with him long ago I don’t remember much...just that he said all these awful things about poi at the time. While my poi was no saint, he wasn’t as bad as he made him out to be.
I remember asking him if poi was attracted to me...he told me no. I laughed out loud because that was so untrue, if there was one thing I was sure about, it was that ...he would constantly tell me how beautiful he thought I was. When I called him on it, he said oh yea, but he’s only physically attracted, not emotionally.
It was almost as if he was trying to upset me.