I am a life path 9 and the ex is 22/4
This is what the website says:
The successful pairing of these two numbers is very rare, and important differences will have to be addressed and accepted by both of you if you want this relationshi p to last. The two numbers usually don't connect, and rarely see eye to eye. If you have a successful relationshi p, this usually indicates that other numbers in your numerologic al chart play a significant enough of a role to overcome this particular incompatibl e combination .
No wonder the relationshi p was always followed with growing pains and the heart hurting