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Fidget1028:

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--- Quote from: Miss Philosopher on January 22, 2019, 08:38:45 PM ---What's your zodiac sign fidget?

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Scorpio

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Scorpio and Aquarius....omggggggggggg lol not sure if your POI has the MENTAL CAPACITY to take on your intense scorpionic emotions and enery. No wonder why he is "avoidant" right now fidget...THat's what aquariuses do!!  They just dip out. lol Very detached signs.

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So true they really are. Also people pleasers and martyr mentality. Make great friends. Codependency in partnerships or problems with jealousy as in they give too much for others and their partners get jealous.

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He's a martyr for sure. No jealousy with either of us. He was very giving, but unfortunately got completely side lined with an ongoing family issue he feels obligated to deal with...but is codependent for sure in that obligation. It wasn't really "us" that was the issue, if that makes sense.

Miss Philosopher:
Hey now! I"m an Aquarius damn it! But yeah, unfortunately we will definitely dip out if we feel controlled, abused, just sick of some shit. That's for true but it usually takes a lot to make us leave. And yeah, we CAN be emotionally detached but when we're in love, not so much. I mean we still like our space, sure. But we love deeply and we love hard and we definitely are very self sacrificial but we also hate secretive types of people and we hate lies more than anything.....infidelity.......dishonesty........disloyalty........but really that secretive shit is just whoa and we have a hard time trusting that. We get a bad wrap a lot but, we can be really good people.

Fidget1028:
Thanks both. I was well aware early on the "incompatibility" of our signs according to many in astrology. I'm not a big astrology fan because they tend to dump people into categories without any gray area. My POI is definitely an "avoider" or a "runner". I am definitely the one who faces things head on (to a fault sometimes). What astrology doesn't take into account is that people can and do recognize their traits and their shortcomings. Sometimes these differences can even benefit a relationship because they can create balance as well as different perspectives. My POI knew I was the action oriented one. Problem? Here's the solution. Argument? Let's discuss it now instead of later. It made him uncomfortable many times, BUT he would also come running to me when he didn't know what do to about something. He could overwhelm easily, so I was the source of reason. He could also get jealous, especially because I do have platonic friendships with men. I knew because of this insecurity in HIM, I needed to be completely transparent in everything I did. That doesn't mean I had to ask permission or not be friends with men, but I knew that he was more comfortable if he was included in the friendships and I was open about them. He is an extremely loyal person and cheating was something I never had to worry about. He learned over time that I was equally loyal. Different signs can be a struggle, but if you recognize the strengths and weaknesses of both, you can certainly work with them and even learn from them. Lord knows if I met someone just like me, the issues would probably be way bigger.

jhuskindle:
i don’t believe in compatibility of signs but sun signs holding similar traits sure. My ex wasn’t supposed to be compatible with me but we were. It just worked. I see plenty of non matched signs in psychic readings that work. Maybe due to rising signs?

Miss Philosopher:

--- Quote from: ladya on January 23, 2019, 05:38:56 AM ---There’s a lot more than just your sun sign. Rising signs are extremely important and so are moon signs. The sun sign is not as important as the other two in my opinion. And you have to see aspects because someone can be a Leo but with a ton of aspects to Saturn which makes them more like a Capricorn or an Aquarius with a lot of aspects to Pluto will make them more Scorpionic. I’m not an Aquarius and I’m detached so lol. Being detached is a very Saturnian trait which is why both Aquarius and Capricorn are ruled by it. And btw you would be surprised that Aquarius is the Scorpio of the air signs. Both of these signs carry a lot of karma with them if you believe in that type of stuff. Aquarius and scorpios have a lot in common esp both being fixed. They’re both detached in their own ways. They both have issues with vulnerability and they both can be cold if they feel they’re being controlled. It also depends on. Whether you come in contact with an evolved Sign or an unevolved sign. There’s so much to astrology it’s fascinating and mind blowing. You can tell a lot about a guy from his chart. You can see his upbringing, family life, how he is in relationships, is he a cheater. Fascinating stuff

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You are sooooooooooo right with this one. So so right. My ex is an Aries on the cusp of Pisces. Literally 3 hours out of Pisces. He's a Cancer rising with a Gemini moon. Now, according to every day astrology, I'm suppose to be so great with Aries. However, no, I'm not good with Aries. I've dated a few of them and just no. Now my ex doesn't have all of the typical Aries traits either. He's very laid back, quiet, he acts much more like a water sign, namely a Cancer, more than anything, and just no for me on those too. It really is amazing how well you can get to know a person, and even yourself, with an astrology chart. I love numerology too. I think life path numbers, soul urge, numbers etc are pretty amazing to check out and also sort of play a part in things. I also agree that it depends greatly on whether or not that sign is matured/evolved whatever you want to call it, because each sign can behave in ways that are very damaging to other people if not. Very nice commentary there! [size=78%] [/size][/color]

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