I came to the same conclusion before. Unless you have been obsessively texting a guy in an unrequited love situation I have also found it’s terrible advice to stay quiet and wait for them to text you when you know in your gut there is a vibe change and they have gone quiet. While they are most likely not emotionally available for a relationshi p and have a new woman anyway- I have had some instances where I wish I just had texted the guy to have checked in on where I stand rather than waiting since readers said he would come back and be in a relationshi p which caused months of confusion (like seeing them updating their dating app profile). I also feel that with women saying nothing and acting fine this only encourages more ghosting and flaky behaviours in the bigger picture of the dating scene.
I completely agree, I think these psychics do the “don’t reach out to him, he’ll reach out to you” thing because it’s supposed to be empowering and you not “chasing the man”. I’ve had one psychic that always says something along the lines of “men have primal urges, they like to chase. You can’t make it too easy” OH PLEASE, there’s been plenty of times this advice has ruined my relationshi
ps because the guy either never reaches out because he thought I didn’t care and he didn’t want to bother me, or it’s used as a means of him saying that he was the bigger person and reached out. I say “follow your heart” any time I’ve gone ahead and reached out anyways we either make up, or at least can get closure. I think the whole “don’t reach out” thing is based on having pride, their perspective of dignity, and not being rejected but I had to ask myself “who are you trying to prove something to?, “is it worth it?”, “if he rejects you then okay”. I also think that when you talk to a psychic and change your natural actions, it alters the path. If you were naturally going to reach out… then do it.
The psychic that comes to mind is Ricky and Terese (“PS’S heavy hitters)” , I think had I not listened to them and gone ahead and reached out to my POI at the time. We might’ve been at a better place but Ricky fed me so many fairytales and then Terese just backed them up. (Apparently they know each other)
Ricky Even told me I’d see a “tan Volvo” around the time my POI would reach out.
So there I was, constantly searching for a tan Volvo. Never happened, nor did we ever get back together and be on the way to marriage like he stated. So thousands down the drain on him and Terese (so much for “I don’t sell fairytales”) and other PS psychics.
I say all this to say, FOLLOW YOUR HEART. I think unless POI absolutely tells you they hate you, never want to hear from you again and etc… just reach out, a bruised ego will heal but at least you gave it your all.
