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Spiritualist Reader (Cookie)
Zee:
--- Quote ---One thing a few of the readers have said is that I am quick to judge some of these guys and don't give them enough of a chance.
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Are you sure she wasn't talking about me? After every failed relationship (there hasn't been many, 'cause I hate to date), I would ask a psychic what was I suppose to learn or why was I involved with such a loser in the first place. Sometimes they could answer and sometimes they could not. I tend to attract guys in only two spectrums. Extremely young (17-28 yrs old) or really old (50-65 plus). I mean where is my middle ground? This has also come up on my astrology charts. Even guys who have told me they are mature for their age, ended up just being rubbish. A 28 year old man will NEVER be mature as a 28 year old woman.
I just wish more guys had their stuff together and wouldn't raise so many flags in the beginning. They can say one thing to me (just one) and it's over before it starts. Why must I be responsible for pointing out the obvious to them? I hate babysitting. I did it on my own without someone holding my hand every step along the way. Jeez.
Cfisher are you referring to chemistry as attraction, making good conversation, having the guy get it when you explain stuff to him, having him understand what you mean without so many words? I'm at the point that I don't believe it is out there either, but I should probably change the way I think. And this too has been difficult. It's so hard when so many frogs are croaking around you. Men are just stupid. What can I say? I am tall 5'11" and I've had guys approach me and go wow, you're tall. Then after a beat, but I like tall women. Guess what?? I know all about me, so I don't need it pointed out. I know I should see this as a compliment but the way they say it, makes it not only seem overly sexual, but not complimentary at all. You see what I'm saying?
I read somewhere once where you have to Keep one eye open and Keep one eye closed, but guess what? I don't want to settle, which is exactly what this sounds like to me and I plan on keeping both eyes open. I read a really good article about it here: http://superdebugsarah.wordpress.com/2011/09/11/one-eye-open-one-eye-closed and the way it affects your life. Maybe this thought came around back in the old days when women were suppose to look the other way when their man cheated, especially if he were a good provider. It just means I have to look longer and harder for someone worthy of my time and affection.
Zee:
Oh, and I've given up on Cookie. I saw in my notes that Cookie (Prophetess 10487) on click4advisor use to be $4.99 as of this year and increased her rates. She was available on Click on Sunday and I increased my bank to see if I could get a reading but it kept getting deleted. After the fourth time I just closed my account. I don't pay much for a first read and keep if short, just to see how much of a connection there is, but I got the impression the 7 mins I paid for, wasn't high enough for her to take the call. Guess we live and learn.
She has less people in line on click so those who want a reading may want to try both places (Click and Keen).
Truth:
Zee - you must have Uranus in or involved with your 7th house, or possibly Aquarius on the cusp.
Zee:
Although I don't know what that means, it is a possibility.
powerofnow:
--- Quote from: Zee on October 08, 2012, 12:58:14 PM ---Although I don't know what that means, it is a possibility.
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Lol!!
Yes, CFisher, we're so impatient! My alias is based on my reminder to just live in the moment..and breathe!
This is an interesting conversation and a subject I've delved into a lot in the past year...I had a bit of an epiphany yesterday (a personal one that may not resonate with you ladies). But until the very recent past (i.e. summer!), I was attracting emotionally unavailable men and perhaps that's why I was feeling that instant connection/attraction with these men - it was their unavailability (and it doesn't have to be verbalized, it can be an energy that's emitted, too) that drew me right in...and now, as I've been working on that particular issues perhaps I'm attracting decent, 'healthier' guys so maybe that instant heartfluttering won't be there and it'll be more of a slow development...I'm just speculating here...
Zee - I took your recommendation and spoke to Samantha. I didn't ask for predictions at all and just asked her which blocks she picked up in me - funnily enough she picked up the very ones I thought I had dissolved :( She said there's still a lot of fear (wrapped up in all its forms) and I need to work through them if I want to attract someone meaningful who will be vibrating at a similar energy. She talked about having to go through a darkness but emerging stronger on the other side. Funny but I feel like this is exactly what I had been through until July of this year so I guess I still need stuff to work out...
Perhaps this is what Cookie meant by my heart being closed (my lame attempt at tying this all back to Cookie so it doesn't sound like we digressed too much ;) )
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