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Zee:

--- Quote ---I asked Cookie what I could do to accelerate the process - ie is there any work I need to do on myself to attract that right person (I feel this past year has been about clearing my past all the way back to my childhood, identifying and eliminating (I think, lol) past rel'p patterns - i.e. attracting unavailable men based on childhood stuff), forgiveness, living in the now, visualizing/manifesting, etc, you name it and all she said was 'you attract people you don't have chemistry with' so not very helpfu in that regards, lol.
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I had the same problem with trust, especially men and that takes time and practice, as well as getting bored easily, but that is an excellent question. (superb actually) and from the reviews I’ve read on Cookie there are some things she really misses.  I still want to read with her to say I’ve been a part of the Cookie Cutter experience, but it seems like she didn’t understand your question. 

I do completely, but don’t think I can answer it. I also don’t have any relationship advice but suggest you continue to ask that question.  I’m not saying Cookie isn’t good but there are deeper readers out there, like Christine Lynn, Samantha Wild, and Jane Wilcox, in that order with CL as number two. My first one is Soul Love11.  All of these people have their own site except Soul Love11, who only reads on Keen. She takes these massive long hiatuses from reading and I only read with her once. Make an appointment and see if she sends you a reply. She would be able to pinpoint exactly why you are attracting men the way you do.

powerofnow:
Really? That's awesome - thanks for the recommendations!!

To be honest, I'm much preferring attracting men with whom I have no chemistry than the men I attracted for the last 10-15 years preceding that - emotionally unavailable men who left me miserable. Baby steps, right! ;)

Thank god for this thread or I would have been very frustrated with Cookie's reading - it was scattered as others have experienced and she wasn't very descriptive about anything or anyone (unique to me, it sounds like) . When I tried to sum it up 'so basically, I'll date different guys but no committed relationship for two years?' she replied 'no, I'm not saying that..you need to date to get to the long-term rel'p'. Fair enough but she wasn't able to tell me which of these guys I would have the best shot with or anything else..maybe we didn't connect (haha, don't we love saying that when we don't receive a reading we don't like!). I think she understood my question about how to better myself but if she's a remote viewer, perhaps she's not the best suited to answer that question.

I'll definitely investigate the readers you suggested - thanks!

Zee:
I totally feel you on this because Dr. G. told me I like the bad boy types and guess what? That comes from being bored but the bad boys will F! you up time and time again because the only agenda they think about are themselves. I want to feel safe in a relationship not spiraling that comes from distrust.

To be honest it almost sounds like she is saying (in not so many words) there are lessons you need to learn through dating, just having fun, just keeping it light, just going with the flow of any relationships, which will allow you to accept and be open to Mr. Right.  In your present condition, whatever that may be, you won't recognize Mr. Right due to the way you attract Mr. Wrong.

powerofnow:

--- Quote from: Zee on October 07, 2012, 02:45:35 PM ---To be honest it almost sounds like she is saying (in not so many words) there are lessons you need to learn through dating, just having fun, just keeping it light, just going with the flow of any relationships, which will allow you to accept and be open to Mr. Right.  In your present condition, whatever that may be, you won't recognize Mr. Right due to the way you attract Mr. Wrong.

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That's an excellent point, Zee. Perhaps there are lessons I need to learn through these shorter-term connections and I know for some of these lessons, it kind of defeats the purpose if I know in advance what they are as we need to experience them to fully understand and learn from them. One thing a few of the readers have said is that I am quick to judge some of these guys and don't give them enough of a chance..perhaps that's something I need to work on...And obviously, patience is obviously something else I need to master, lol

Cfisher:
Oh powerofnow... Isn't patience what we all need to learn? Lol! I have a habit of discounting guys too. Maybe I new to try and get to know them a bit better before I toss them! But at the same time if the chemistry isn't there, I don't believe that it will EVER be there. At least that's been my lifelong experience. Stupid chemistry, why do you have to be such an unobtainable thing??? Lol!

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