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Cfisher:
She did the same thing to me in one of my readings. Telling me what I said, how I acted and how he reacted etc. Pretty spooky! Lol! And what she said was true too. It happened how she saw it and WHEN she saw it, had the timing of the past down to a T. Crazy, crazy Cookie Monster ;)

oben:
To me she also said I did something which did upset him, but she could not see what it was, and of course I will not accept I did anything  ;D she was very cool at describing things. The only thing is that as we went on I started to feel that she was putting things together and trying to make a story out of them, and thanks to this forum I was sort of prepared for that so had to direct her back to the actual point

powerofnow:
Just had my first reading with Cookie...(not exactly true - I spoke to her many years ago but can't recall the details)...glad I read through some of these pages, otherwise I would have been very :s . I'm not attached to any guy from my past so I figured my reading would be free of any attempt by the reader to provide me with a fairytale ending.
I just asked what was coming up for my love life in the next 6 months and she just saw a lot of dating..a lot, by my standards - i.e. I don't do online dating, speed dating and I don't go out all that much (esp not in the winter!) . All in all, she mentionned about seven guys - two wouldn't want a committed relationship (I'm thinking those could be two from the past year she picked up on), three I wouldn't want to date (she was right in stating that my biggest problem was not finding guys I'm attracted to - chemistry is a big deal to me as the physical attraction was missing in the final year (s) of my last relationship) and two I would date but whether I would date any of these guys long-term she wasn't clear on. She did say my heart was closed off because of some guy from my past but I have no idea who or what that could be...

It was similar to Northstar Julie's reading in that they both saw lots of dating coming up but nothing serious for quite a while (Aries Intuition, Sapphire, Gaylene, Sandy Esther, Barbara all saw someone special coming up this fall). I asked Cookie what I could do to accelerate the process - ie is there any work I need to do on myself to attract that right person (I feel this past year has been about clearing my past all the way back to my childhood, identifying and eliminating (I think, lol) past rel'p patterns - i.e. attracting unavailable men based on childhood stuff), forgiveness, living in the now, visualizing/manifesting, etc, you name it and all she said was 'you attract people you don't have chemistry with' so not very helpfu in that regards, lol. I've asked other readers what I need to work on but some like Sapphire said I need to stop doing so much work and start trusting/having faith (which I started to do) and others stated that it doesn't matter what I do as this new person is coming in...

So I'd appreciate any recommendations on anyone you feel who could help me on my spiritual journey and identify why it is that I may be blocking someone new from coming in or what lessons I still need to continue working on, etc, etc....Otherwise, I'm in a good spot, overall - my spirits are good, I have much for which I'm grateful and I don't feel *desperate* but after being relatively single for a couple years, I do feel ready to meet someone longer-term (like Kisha said 'there's good energy around you for someone new')  ...

Cfisher:
@powerofnow- just keep going out and dating!!!! Cookie and Julie are my personal dream team :) the two of then have at times given me the exact same readings. Maybe the reason why you aren't attracting the guys you have chemistry with is because those guys are nice guys, see your worth, chase you like they are supposed to but don't know how to create *attraction* with a woman.

My suggestion? If you have kick ass confidence which totally creates attraction because you know what you want, know what you are looking for etc. go out and find that guy! Don't wait around for then to come to you, go out and find them!

Go straight up to a guy that YOU find attractive and talk to him. As long as he's single and interested, he'll ask you for your number. But you have to keep that confidence up throughout. It's up to you to entice the opposite sex, so take some control. If the guy tells you he's married, involved etc. toss him. But if he's hot, you're attracted to him and he to you, you've got something to work with. But again, you absolutely have to keep your confidence up. If you fall for him before he falls for you, there is a possible roller coaster ride there, especially if he isn't ready or is going through something like a current break up etc. But seriously? Go flirt your ass off. Confidence is KEY. And all of a sudden you'll find your evenings booked solid with activities, with dates etc.

Another suggestion I have is a singles network. Google *singles* in your area and get yourself out there meeting new people. It's a numbers game baby. Make friends with everyone you can get your hands on, show off the fabulous personality you have, talk to everyone! Show that internal confidence that you have from tossing all the baggage and garbage of your past and keep moving! You can do this! 

As for manifesting? Every night before you go to bed, picture yourself in a happy relationship. Picture that guy, holding hands, the feeling of being in love etc. if you can visualize being happy in a relationship, then anyone you go into a dating relationship will be more positive. Whatever is holding you back from the past, say *screw that!* ignore it! Let it stay in the past.

You just need to create positive feelings about your future, about being happy and focus on that. The next thing ya know, mr. Awesome rolls through the door when you didn't even see him coming. Maybe you start off as friends and get to know each other, but then it turns into something more, without too much thought process, with things happening naturally, without you over analyzing stuff, it just happens.

And that's where you want the picture in your head to be. But just keep getting yourself out there having fun and enjoying new people and watch the chips fall where they should ;)

Good luck!!!

powerofnow:
LOL, Cfisher, you sound just like Julie!!! She said I have to make a job out of finding love. She, too, said I could speed it up but I'd need to 'get out there'. ...yuck, I hate casual dating, lol...I describe myself as an 'outgoing introvert' - I'm super friendly at work, talk to everyone but then feel so exhausted in the evening that I need to stay in to regroup and re-energize myself, lol....

Call me naive but all my past long-term relationships all felt 'fated' - they all happened when they were meant to. And yes, I met them at parties, events, etc but usually when my desire to attend these events were high and usually my 'desire' and my 'intuition' are in sync...But who knows, perhaps I'm going about this all wrong this time. I just felt if I worked on myself enough that I wouldn't need to join networks, go for drinks after work, etc in order to meet someone. Just thought it would happen regardless of what I did - but perhaps I need to heed Wayne Dyer's words about going out of my 'comfort zone' for once...sigh...

Thanks for your enthusiastic post - it made me smile!!

By the way, do you find Cookie accurate at picking up on your blocks/insecurities, etc? She said my heart has been closed off and that's why I'm not attracting the right type of people but I'm kind of surprised to hear this..(she also said I get bored easily - not sure that's true although I recall her stating that to you, according to a previous post) . I did think of you when I realized how similar Cookie and Julie's readings were as I know they're your faves - they both said that I'm too picky and not giving some guys enough of a chance. Hmm, there's only one guy in the past six months that would apply to and I do hang out with him when possible (and haven't written him off completely) .

Happy Thanksgiving my fellow Canuck! :D

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