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allbitenobark:
--- Quote from: decibel.diva on September 07, 2012, 11:43:13 AM ---@Estrellita and 2sisters - women are passionate but they are also protective. If you (the general YOU) are on this forum I imagine many, myself included, may be having a tough time of it whether it be love, finance, etc. It seems when one is already down it is far too easy to misinterpret someone else's tone via text/type and it leads to lashing out at the anonymous source one thinks is doing them wrong. That being said, although we all understand being frustrated, it's not appropriate behavior in life or on an internet forum to bully anyone just because you're in a bad mood or can't take constructive criticism or whatever. I personally could care less if anyone likes the same readers I like but admit it bothers me if I feel someone is telling out right lies about that or any reader. I always tell my friends and family, and I have said it here: just because 1 or 100 of your friends have connected with a reader does not mean that you will. As far as the negativity that has recently been spurned on Cookie's thread...unfortunately it seems it's not about her so it really has no place on her thread anyway. Hopefully the dust will settle soon and everyone will be able to lighten their moods a bit. We are all in the same boat, quit trying to rock it!!!!! LOL!!!
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This post was not directed at Love123456, it was a general agreement and response to those addressed. If the comment of "bully" resonated with any of you personally, well there's not much I can do about that.
Geez Louise, one minute I'm taking things too far and need to chill, the next I'm completely understood. Both sentiments condescending and without explanation. Either way, ladies and gents, I'm taking a break from the open forum for a while. The newer presences seem too negative for truthful discussion, IMO. Although I am by no means a saint and have gotten fired up now and again, I genuinely have tried to be a positive presence and have tried sharing my experiences with honest reviews. I will stay available via PM for everyone if interested. I read with Sapphire21, Cookie, SourcePower, and Sheena. I have read with Kisha, Gaylene, and Raven Mystic. Sorry if my reaction seems overly sensitive but I am the process of working a few things out on my own and my heart is too big to not care about the overall attitude and vibe at present. Take care everyone and perhaps I'll see some familiar faces in the chat room soon!
Nottakingthebait:
Jordie, watch for the po-po that stand one block up watching....sometimes there are some really hot ones! When I see the hot ones, I floor it and blow through every red light I can! LOL I thank them for pulling me over, and I give back by slipping my number to them! LMAO
--- Quote from: jordie on September 07, 2012, 05:59:00 PM ---I always say thank you when I can squeeze through that turn before the light turns red. And no cops are around. ;)
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BellaLife:
Hi decibel.diva.....I hope everything works out for you. I wish you would stay, when I first signed up there were many people including yourself that I found very interesting and could relate to things they were going through. I see many do not post here as often anymore. I do miss them!
People just have bad days sometimes....please do not take them personally.......sincerely bellalife!
loops77:
eh, I've given enough. Its time to start getting back in return. ;)
NewHealthyStart:
--- Quote from: decibel.diva on September 07, 2012, 11:43:13 AM ---@Estrellita and 2sisters - women are passionate but they are also protective. If you (the general YOU) are on this forum I imagine many, myself included, may be having a tough time of it whether it be love, finance, etc. It seems when one is already down it is far too easy to misinterpret someone else's tone via text/type and it leads to lashing out at the anonymous source one thinks is doing them wrong. That being said, although we all understand being frustrated, it's not appropriate behavior in life or on an internet forum to bully anyone just because you're in a bad mood or can't take constructive criticism or whatever. I personally could care less if anyone likes the same readers I like but admit it bothers me if I feel someone is telling out right lies about that or any reader. I always tell my friends and family, and I have said it here: just because 1 or 100 of your friends have connected with a reader does not mean that you will. As far as the negativity that has recently been spurned on Cookie's thread...unfortunately it seems it's not about her so it really has no place on her thread anyway. Hopefully the dust will settle soon and everyone will be able to lighten their moods a bit. We are all in the same boat, quit trying to rock it!!!!! LOL!!!
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Oh how I agree with you. We've had some very rough patches in the past few months, my sister and I, and it is hard to interpret what others are saying at times (no tone of voice included over text). It shocked me at first, when it first happened but, I've learned that if I want others to be compassionate or understanding towards me (because Of my health issues) then I need to be able to do the same and try to understand. Yeah sometimes it fails and people can just be outright cruel and petty but I believe there are people that we can talk to, even those that are psychic, rather than just a psychologist, that can really help. I've gotten upset because of some of the things said about our fav and I was upset about something I saw posted about Cookie also. I guess we just want EVERYONE to have a good experience with those that we had experiences with and you are correct again about being bothered by it, I was personally bothered by it and I really shouldn't have been but, if you find someone that actually helps you or has helped you and was generous with their time, you feel like you should protect them or at the very least stand up and say that you disagree with the negativity being posted about them.
I was so upset that something that was told to me by Cookie didn't happen that I got so mad at myself for putting so much faith in HER. It wasn't her fault, it was mine, and that was interpreted as though I was mad at Cookie and I was NOT. And when I tried to explain that I was riddled with crap for it. I've learned to ignore most of it but, when you have an imbalance like we do, it's pretty hard sometimes to keep that in check. So we say we will stick with our Fav just like others stick with their favs or as some put it their go-to psychic or psychics but, I've seen it so many times on these boards with just about Every Psychic Forum/Board, that we've learned to not take it personally or we try to not read too much into it. We've just tried to look past it when we can. People like to talk about their experiences (good and bad), that's about the gist of it. I just don't get it when people decide to riddle others with their insecurities, I mean my god I've got some pretty serious medical conditions and I keep that under check the best I can, you'd think that others would do the same but instead they run to their insecurities and start talking crappola. I can tell you this much, those that do it are not ones that others listen too, their make their opinions invalid when conducting themselves in such a way. I learned that a long time ago because I used to do it. If you are acting like that, the only ones that will trust you or your word are ones that are in a similar head space and it can't be good if you're attacking others from that place within yourself.
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