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Spiritualist Reader (Cookie)
Synergy:
Cfisher,
I called Cookie quite a bit between November and April. I was calling to ask about C, but for some reason, she would always bring up the dwarf (that's what I am going to call the man I dated before C). She would tell me that he would be coming back around and that I would date BOTH men in the warmer months of 2012. She told me that I had greater compatibility with the dwarf and that I could get him to commit far quicker than C, even though in reality it wouldn't be quick at all because he wouldn't be ready to commit until October (this is what she told me). At the end of February, I found out that the dwarf got married. None of what Cookie predicted about him came to pass. None of it. When C ended things with me, she told me that I wouldn't be alone for long because the dwarf would come back for me. Nope. Didn't happen.
I continued to call her about C because she did get minor things right, and she is an amazing remote viewer, so I was hoping maybe the thing with the dwarf was a fluke. Cookie told me that C did not want to be back with his ex gf because she put him through hell. Well, not long after, he was back with her. It was short lived, but it did happen. She then continued to tell me not to worry because he would be back. He just needed to be crazy and free for a while. He did do the crazy and free thing, and in the process he met someone else. Now he is relocating to be with her in another state.
I have not called Cookie since early April, nor do I intend to call her ever again. She was completely wrong. I should also mention that Sincerity also said I would reconcile with C and we would be together for the remainder of 2012. She saw us spending holidays together and such. There was no reconciliation. Both readers were completely wrong for me.
Cfisher:
Psychic spy? Holy cow, it looks like you've got an entirely different perspective on using Cookie! What kinds of things do you ask her? I just gotta know!!! I'm thinking selfishly here as I'm still trying to figure out how to get the most beneficial reading out of her as much as possible....
loops77:
Cfisher, I'm not liking that she dosen't really know who you will marry and is pulling the "you'll have a choice thing". I'm also not liking that she says you have to prove something to him. Umm...he is the nutcase here, so he should be proving to you. I'm only going to call cookie if I want to spy on someone (I use Mslisam and Verushka for that already) etc. Seems like all she is good for really.....
Luckystar:
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lol.....what are her long-term predictions for you SB?
Cfisher:
--- Quote from: loops77 on July 23, 2012, 02:28:57 PM ---Cfisher, I'm not liking that she dosen't really know who you will marry and is pulling the "you'll have a choice thing". I'm also not liking that she says you have to prove something to him. Umm...he is the nutcase here, so he should be proving to you. I'm only going to call cookie if I want to spy on someone (I use Mslisam and Verushka for that already) etc. Seems like all she is good for really.....
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@loops77 - I don't disagree with you on the *choice* thing, but it' the second time I've heard this before. Cookie also told me I could walk away completely from this guy and then the entire reading would change as well. She also mentioned everything was dependent on what I wanted to do with this guy. I told her I didn't want to carry on with him the way things were rolling as I was having that emotional spiraling thing happening on my end. Where I was beginning to feel worse about things. I also told her that the last thing I would do is pursue anything with him whatsoever. And she told me, well you are saying that, but that's just not what I see happening. He had told me in the beginning that he wasn't emotionally available. I took that at face value as I wasn't looking for anything serious at that point either. But then as you become closer to someone, you start having feelings for someone. Then I got stuck. Like, in the mud, stuck and now I feel like I'm on a hold, which I hate. There truly was no finality to how we ended things and part of me wishes it was a completely closed door.
Also regarding her saying that I need to prove something to him. That irritated me big time. But the truth of the matter is I think life will just sort of happen. I get to choose who I have in my life and so does he. He isn't emotionally available, he told me that and I still carried on as I was having fun. Then fun turned into not fun and a lot of confusion on my end, which I never intended.
I don't question that he and I could be friends, we get along really well, he's just not ready for what I want. Am I wasting my time? Yes, from this perspective, absolutely. But I have to say, an ex-boyfriend of mine from 12 years ago, is still in my life and had I not trusted my gut, listened to Cookie believing at the end (now) this could turn into something really healthy for me, I wouldn't be in this very caring, mutually beneficial, platonic friendship where we are working together as a team. I never, ever would have thought that with that particular man I would ever have the opportunity to fix what was so incredibly broken and tumultuous for so many years. And although it didn't work itself out in the romantic spectrum, it's worked itself out in probably the best way possible for what I need in my life - friendship and we work together. So from this perspective I did get what I wanted. It'll just never go to the next level ever, mostly because now at this stage, I don't actually want him that way.
And in truth, and this will probably seem really weird to everyone on here, this man was the love of my life at one point. It's certainly not a normal thing to be friends and close friends with someone who was the love of your life, right? Well, that's what I always thought too, it just didn't end up being a *normal* relationship. It just wasn't meant to be....
And the truth is, this could be another one of those situations where it's just not meant to be and we are just meant to be friends and that's it.
As for her saying she didn't know which way I'll choose, could very well be true, but the truth is, if too much shit happens with him in my life, it wouldn't even be a second thought in my head to leave him in the dust. I'm THAT cut throat. But at this stage apart from him just not being available, he's been a most fun part-time companion, always treats me with respect and like a lady and has never been mean, rude or anything like that towards me. A little bit cold the last time we saw each other, but that's it.
It's all up for interpretation, right?
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