No, not rude at all! It is always a possibility, right? I just think that historicall y he has been honest and told me about any indiscretio n even if it was talking to another girl. He initiated the conversatio n of not seeing others, so it just made me feel as though he would have confessed it then. He still isn't taking our next step in the relationshi p so clearly there is a problem. I just don't think it is another girl, but it very well could be. No other reader has picked up on many relationshi ps for him though either.