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Nobody predicted that I got cheated on
daughterofcups - P:
--- Quote from: LetItBe123 on December 01, 2018, 07:41:50 PM ---Hi everyone. I’ve been a keen fanatic for about a year. I’ve read with just about every advisor worth reading with. I’ve had a boyfriend for 2 years and it’s been very up and down. I’ve read with Yona, Aries, zidalia, Queen of Cups and atleast 20 others. Today I found out my boyfriend has been cheating on me FOR MONTHS! I’ve asked every single advisor if I have any reason to be worried about infidelity, they all told me no! He’s a good guy, loves me, has a hard time showing love, but no cheating. I am not only devastated that my boyfriend broke my heart, but also that not one psychic saw this! Nobody. That’s my story, thanks for reading.
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Hiya. First off let me say im so sorry... you didnt deserve this and let me be the first to tell you its NOT YOUR FAULT. You didnt do anything wrong, there is nothing you couldve done to change this outcome ie his behavior, and you are GOOD ENOUGH. You are always good enough to not deserve that, literally no one deserves that. I was cheated on years ago with a guy i was with for two years and thought it would be marriage, he ended up cheating with a close friend too- it broke me, or at least i thought it did at the time. I struggled with feeling i wasnt good enough for him, then blaming myself, then getting mad at myself for “not being able to see it” then blaming myself more and saying “if i had been smarter”.... NOPE. No. Dont. Stop right there. Heres the deal, people who cheat and hurt the person closest to them are doing this TO THEMSELVES. Its almost masochistic, and sad. Thats THEIR struggle, and their cross to bear, but IN NO WAY a reflection of you.
When this happened to me, i ended up choosing to not move to the same city as him after college and instead be selfish and make a choice for myself and my own future- i went to grad school and got into the career im meant to be on. This single event, although traumatic, pushed me to a place i needed and was always supposed to be on, and im greatful.. so although maybe you cant see it now, just know one day you will, and this is apart of your path.
Furthermore i wanted to say, that all the times the” top” readers saw a guy being marriage or describing how perfect a relationship would go with a specific person, and it ended up not happening at all, they were all actually describing the next guy in my life. All of them. They just didnt know it. I dont think that info was coming from no where, so keep your head up.
star1:
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--- Quote from: jas on December 02, 2018, 06:21:45 PM ---Psycho girl...you said that earlier...move on. You completely missed my point - one case was LOA and the other was the complete and polar opposite. The jury is still out and I am not trying to serve up LOA, simply giving you a story where LOA was the case and one story where it was not.
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Jas you don’t have to explain p. Girl 😂. People will not want to understand if they don’t want to. We’re not really missing out if they don’t want to practice it. LOA is not a way to get everything you want. I’m a big believer of LoA. I’ve written my experience all over the board.
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I think that we should all respect that we each have our own beliefs.
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Sure, isn’t that what I just said. LOA is creating wonders for me and other people I know. Doesn’t matter what other people say or think. No explanation can tantamount to anything if someone is closed off from the point you’re trying to deliver. Everyone can have their open opinion, beliefs, faith, what have you. You can list down all your experiences, but my experiences are different as well. For me it’s working, why would I sweat about it. I also don’t believe in a lot of other things.
The last two LOA that worked for me:
1) I ended up having 5 figure debt because of an event. I was thinking I hope the bank just forgives it. I contacted the bank asking how can it be settled and the loan officer said, they will do XYZ and forgive everything without anything getting reported on the credit report.
2) A hotel im staying lost a high end coat (coat style was a 2014 seasonal coat) that I really love back in 2015. I believe it was stolen because the manager “resigned” and the management just decided to never respond to my calls. Every year I go back to the manufacturer asking if they have something similar but nothing. The other day.. I was thinking I really really want it. I went to eBay, there it was. The only sateen coat that was the same serial number I lost with my size (my size is very hard to find) and same color. I can’t believe it. The seller never used it and she bought it on sale so she sold it very very cheap (the coat was $2K plus). You can go to eBay right now and type sateen/satin trench coat and see how many ugly coats you can find. It was up for bidding but the seller said if I sent her an offer (lower than she started the bid — why she did that?? I don’t know!! Maybe it’s not LOA.. maybe it’s just luck!) she’ll just sell it to me right away. And bonus, she gave me the receipt and original garment bag. So now I can have the manufacturer alter it in my size free of charge. A receipt she kept since 2014.
Did I get lucky? Sure maybe. But these kind of things happen too often so maybe I’m very lucky. Would you believe what I share? Sure I respect your beliefs if you don’t want to. The point is, it’s effective, it happens to people and I use it a lot. As for the starving kids in Africa, it’s ridiculous to say they are still starving because LOA doesn’t work. There is one top partner in our firm, he earns millions now. He said he was from Africa and he wanted a better life so he walked from Africa to Europe. The only bag he carried was another change of clothes. He arrived in Europe, ended up in UK, studied English, studied engineering and is now a partner in one of the biggest firms in the whole world. If you don’t believe it, PM me, I’ll give you his name and company. But I donate to charities that help them as well as Doctors Without Borders and ascpa. I don’t LOA those kind of things. I’m proactive in dealing with situations like that.
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I'm really glad that "LOA" works for you and you exercise it, I have no issues with people who do believe in LOA.. It's their choice and if they choose to believe in that and exercise it, then great. Just like there are multi religions that I don't believe in but we all have to accept that they're there. For me LOA hasn't worked and I strongly don't believe in it, I believe things happen that are meant to regardless. But if it is something that seems to work for you and is bringing positivity into your life then fair play. Good luck to you, seriously.
psychic girls:
--- Quote from: whskers on December 03, 2018, 06:49:15 AM ---
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--- Quote from: whskers on December 02, 2018, 09:33:16 PM ---
--- Quote from: jas on December 02, 2018, 06:21:45 PM ---Psycho girl...you said that earlier...move on. You completely missed my point - one case was LOA and the other was the complete and polar opposite. The jury is still out and I am not trying to serve up LOA, simply giving you a story where LOA was the case and one story where it was not.
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Jas you don’t have to explain p. Girl 😂. People will not want to understand if they don’t want to. We’re not really missing out if they don’t want to practice it. LOA is not a way to get everything you want. I’m a big believer of LoA. I’ve written my experience all over the board.
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I think that we should all respect that we each have our own beliefs.
--- End quote ---
Sure, isn’t that what I just said. LOA is creating wonders for me and other people I know. Doesn’t matter what other people say or think. No explanation can tantamount to anything if someone is closed off from the point you’re trying to deliver. Everyone can have their open opinion, beliefs, faith, what have you. You can list down all your experiences, but my experiences are different as well. For me it’s working, why would I sweat about it. I also don’t believe in a lot of other things.
The last two LOA that worked for me:
1) I ended up having 5 figure debt because of an event. I was thinking I hope the bank just forgives it. I contacted the bank asking how can it be settled and the loan officer said, they will do XYZ and forgive everything without anything getting reported on the credit report.
2) A hotel im staying lost a high end coat (coat style was a 2014 seasonal coat) that I really love back in 2015. I believe it was stolen because the manager “resigned” and the management just decided to never respond to my calls. Every year I go back to the manufacturer asking if they have something similar but nothing. The other day.. I was thinking I really really want it. I went to eBay, there it was. The only sateen coat that was the same serial number I lost with my size (my size is very hard to find) and same color. I can’t believe it. The seller never used it and she bought it on sale so she sold it very very cheap (the coat was $2K plus). You can go to eBay right now and type sateen/satin trench coat and see how many ugly coats you can find. It was up for bidding but the seller said if I sent her an offer (lower than she started the bid — why she did that?? I don’t know!! Maybe it’s not LOA.. maybe it’s just luck!) she’ll just sell it to me right away. And bonus, she gave me the receipt and original garment bag. So now I can have the manufacturer alter it in my size free of charge. A receipt she kept since 2014.
Did I get lucky? Sure maybe. But these kind of things happen too often so maybe I’m very lucky. Would you believe what I share? Sure I respect your beliefs if you don’t want to. The point is, it’s effective, it happens to people and I use it a lot. As for the starving kids in Africa, it’s ridiculous to say they are still starving because LOA doesn’t work. There is one top partner in our firm, he earns millions now. He said he was from Africa and he wanted a better life so he walked from Africa to Europe. The only bag he carried was another change of clothes. He arrived in Europe, ended up in UK, studied English, studied engineering and is now a partner in one of the biggest firms in the whole world. If you don’t believe it, PM me, I’ll give you his name and company. But I donate to charities that help them as well as Doctors Without Borders and ascpa. I don’t LOA those kind of things. I’m proactive in dealing with situations like that.
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I can't proof that there no LOA or not and there no proof that LOA exist too I just don't believe it. For every story like that Africa guy there are thousand of fail story who try just as hard as him and fail. Millions of peoples went to LA to become a movie star and 1 percent of them will become successful most will become homeless. If you believe in LOA and it working for you good. I believe that what meant to be your will happen no matter what.
sawthelight:
I believe in positive thinking (not LOA really) but more for my own benefit than trying to manifest things...meaning I feel I'm in a better frame of mind if I'm just more positive about things. Years ago, I was going through a horrible family crisis, and dealing with toxic family members, that were making things worse. I kept thinking positively even though everyone was trying to drag me down, and things turned out for the best at the end. I think just keeping myself on an upbeat path saved my sanity.
But if LOA was real, I should have won the Lottery five times over by now LMAO.
LetItBe123:
@daughterofcups thank you so much for everything you said, it was much needed
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