% @star: They tell me he chats with various different females. There was one that he was messing with for about a month. He has this pattern since I've known him. His flings are just that. Always flings, for attention purposes, and at this point I wouldn't be surprised if he got laid. I don't even care much anymore. Nevertheless, none of these are "serious" relationships. Although, it really shouldn't even matter to me at this point. I'm pushing myself to get to that point of not giving a shit either way. I'm 90% there. Kisha told me back in April that someone came up as "competition" to me in the months of July and August but that it would end and he'd come back around in September. He broke up with me June 26th and came back September 7th. He admitted to me that he had been chatting with someone that didn't even live in the same state as he did. He's a liar though so I'll never know if that's true or not. He told me he had started in beginning of August. I don't believe that though. I feel it began end of June when he broke up with me.
Then, in November 3rd reading, Kisha told me he was having "companionship" with someone and that said female was nice to him but wasn't into him the same way he was into her and that she sent him mixed messages and that she would be gone after 5 weeks. I must say, it appears to me that is happening because communication from him has increased to almost daily now and he's asking me what I'm doing and what's been going on in my life etc. That is his pattern. When he's messing with someone, he doesn't ask that stuff and keeps contact going once a week, very short lived. When said fling ends, he then begins to become more interested in my life. He hasn't asked for any forgiveness yet as Kisha said he would, and he hasn't attempted relationship reconciliation which she said he would but not until January. I don't give a shit anymore though. Since he left, I'm absolutely appalled at how he's been and remained for 7 months now. He can keep his flings. I know his life is about to crumble and go to shit and everything he has going on over there is going to come crashing down on him and this time I'm not going to help him or be there for him. He can go back to one of his short lived, shallow, insignificant flings that he treated me like such shit for. I'm waiting for the new guy. I don't feel weak anymore. Karma is only a bitch when we are first :p