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ready to give it up for good
Hillcam:
--- Quote from: Still tired on November 30, 2018, 02:05:23 PM ---It makes me sick how much I spent on readings. As long as I had an account open it left that temptation open to call. Since I closed my account a few months back I just don't even feel the urge anymore. I quit Keen on and off a few times over the years. I used to think I would never be able to stop. So I just tried to limit myself and do readings only once a month or every other month. As long as I had that account open the temptation was always there. I could go for awhile without getting a reading, but the curiousity would get to me and I kept wondering what would this reader or that reader say about my situation. Even the times I closed my account before I still wondered. I don't even wonder about it anymore. It gets to a point where you just realize it does not matter what they say. You can deal with things without needing to get their perspective . It's not difficult, life is actually way harder when you are getting readings and trying to make sense of what all these different readers tell you. You can do this. I hope you have a great vacation and birthday.
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I contacted customer service and closed my account yesterday and my first thought was ‘I should’ve called one last advisor instead of having them refund my bank account.’ 🙄 I felt sick like I had just broken up with someone I truly cared about. Now that I’m not as shocked (for lack of a better word) I had to remind myself that those readers don’t truly care about my problems. They won’t notice that I’ve stopped calling. It’s not a break up, this is the healthiest option that I’ve had in regards to Keen in a long long time.
I feel really good already, actually. I used to check Keen compulsivel y just ‘to see who’s available.’ I’m not sure if this positivity will wear off the next time something happens and I *NEED* insight but as of now I feel great.
I might still creep on the forum for a while, I do enjoy talking to most of you and hearing everyone’s input and all of our different stories, so don’t be surprised if I pop back up on a thread here and there. 😂😅 Thank you all for the birthday wishes 😊
sawthelight:
--- Quote from: star1 on November 30, 2018, 12:26:47 PM ---
--- Quote from: sawthelight on November 30, 2018, 12:18:48 PM ---I don't think you will regret the decison to give up on readings..a t all.good luck to you.
I just went over some old bank statements of mine (tax reasons) from when i still had a Keen account and got literally sick when I saw how much I spent on there! all the charges to Keen-Ingenio, OMG! Disgusting.
At least I can say now if I spend $100 a month on readings, it's a lot and it's not with those money drainers anymore.
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It's scary how much you spend on readers, isn't it?
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OMG yes. Disgusting actually. I feel better now that I can see what a difference I can see in my spending on readings... I don’t feel so bad spending ten bucks in a purple ocean reading here and there lol.
star1:
--- Quote from: sawthelight on December 01, 2018, 02:16:06 PM ---
--- Quote from: star1 on November 30, 2018, 12:26:47 PM ---
--- Quote from: sawthelight on November 30, 2018, 12:18:48 PM ---I don't think you will regret the decison to give up on readings..a t all.good luck to you.
I just went over some old bank statements of mine (tax reasons) from when i still had a Keen account and got literally sick when I saw how much I spent on there! all the charges to Keen-Ingenio, OMG! Disgusting.
At least I can say now if I spend $100 a month on readings, it's a lot and it's not with those money drainers anymore.
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It's scary how much you spend on readers, isn't it?
--- End quote ---
OMG yes. Disgusting actually. I feel better now that I can see what a difference I can see in my spending on readings... I don’t feel so bad spending ten bucks in a purple ocean reading here and there lol.
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Lol. I'm glad you're managing to spend less, now.
Hillcam:
Well, it seems as though Keen didn’t really deactivate my account. I got a call from Keen, and of course being an addict I answered out of curiosity. It was Cookie.
I shouldn’t have answered but I got a good reading and now I’ll call customer service yet again so I can have them delete my account 😑😖
Sooshi:
What's happening with your Alaska trip now that there's been a huge earth quake there ?
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