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11jlady:
@KotaSwan: While I can appreciate your point of view, there are some other minor details that you don't know about. I don't feel she's being "a good friend" at all. I feel like there's more to it than that. I have no issues with people inserting their opinion about my own situation since I did put it out to the public. I will tell you though, that I wouldn't be dealing with him with no contact for months and months though.........I'd not be waiting at all. When a person goes back and forth because of a situation that deals with two different locations, children, and a bad divorce.........it's a bit more complicating than that. There are also quite a few more details that I've not shared on this forum nor in private about my situation. The things I did share were things I was hurting about which I definitely shouldn't have ever shared them on a public forum. This is another lesson for me.
Nevertheless, what I said pertains to those who wait years and years with no contact. I've been in the no contact situation. Sometimes they DO come back after a year or more and sometimes they don't. My whole point was, if a person hasn't heard from another person within 6 months time, it would be healthier for said person to try to heal up, care for themselves, and try to move forward. That doesn't mean their POI will never ever come back. I'm just saying it's probably better not to put your whole life on hold for a period of years waiting for someone that hasn't spoken to you at all. My intentions aren't me trying to be judgmental. They are to try to help people.
star1:
--- Quote from: 11jlady on November 22, 2018, 11:55:06 PM ---@KotaSwan: While I can appreciate your point of view, there are some other minor details that you don't know about. I don't feel she's being "a good friend" at all. I feel like there's more to it than that. I have no issues with people inserting their opinion about my own situation since I did put it out to the public. I will tell you though, that I wouldn't be dealing with him with no contact for months and months though.........I'd not be waiting at all. When a person goes back and forth because of a situation that deals with two different locations, children, and a bad divorce.........it's a bit more complicating than that. There are also quite a few more details that I've not shared on this forum nor in private about my situation. The things I did share were things I was hurting about which I definitely shouldn't have ever shared them on a public forum. This is another lesson for me.
Nevertheless, what I said pertains to those who wait years and years with no contact. I've been in the no contact situation. Sometimes they DO come back after a year or more and sometimes they don't. My whole point was, if a person hasn't heard from another person within 6 months time, it would be healthier for said person to try to heal up, care for themselves, and try to move forward. That doesn't mean their POI will never ever come back. I'm just saying it's probably better not to put your whole life on hold for a period of years waiting for someone that hasn't spoken to you at all. My intentions aren't me trying to be judgmental. They are to try to help people.
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Lol pot kettle black. You clearly are mentally unhinged. You didn't let me post about another reader because you liked them, and your post at the top is clearly a dig at me because you knew my situation, if anyone has written about people's personal stuff - it's you. Please do not contact me or about me again. I think you're very narcissistic and unpleasant. Please look at your very toxic situation before commenting on others. Thanks.
KotaSwan:
--- Quote from: 11jlady on November 22, 2018, 11:55:06 PM ---@KotaSwan: While I can appreciate your point of view, there are some other minor details that you don't know about. I don't feel she's being "a good friend" at all. I feel like there's more to it than that. I have no issues with people inserting their opinion about my own situation since I did put it out to the public. I will tell you though, that I wouldn't be dealing with him with no contact for months and months though.........I'd not be waiting at all. When a person goes back and forth because of a situation that deals with two different locations, children, and a bad divorce.........it's a bit more complicating than that. There are also quite a few more details that I've not shared on this forum nor in private about my situation. The things I did share were things I was hurting about which I definitely shouldn't have ever shared them on a public forum. This is another lesson for me.
Nevertheless, what I said pertains to those who wait years and years with no contact. I've been in the no contact situation. Sometimes they DO come back after a year or more and sometimes they don't. My whole point was, if a person hasn't heard from another person within 6 months time, it would be healthier for said person to try to heal up, care for themselves, and try to move forward. That doesn't mean their POI will never ever come back. I'm just saying it's probably better not to put your whole life on hold for a period of years waiting for someone that hasn't spoken to you at all. My intentions aren't me trying to be judgmental. They are to try to help people.
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Not buying it! #ignore #fakenews
11jlady:
@Start1: In general the definition of a narcissist is a person who has an excessive interest in or admiration of themselves. There are obvious lists of behaviors of a narcissist that I do not display either. That isn't me. As you can see, I haven't mentioned one detail about your situation at all nor would I. I'm a person of my word. I have zero intentions on contacting you. You haven't received any private messages or emails from me have you? No. And it will remain that way.
@KotaSwan: That's your choice. It doesn't effect my life either way.
Have a good day/night ladies.
star1:
--- Quote from: 11jlady on November 23, 2018, 12:21:30 AM ---@Start1: In general the definition of a narcissist is a person who has an excessive interest in or admiration of themselves. There are obvious lists behaviors of a narcissist that I do not display either. That isn't me. As you can see, I haven't mentioned one detail about your situation at all nor would I. I'm a person of my word. I have zero intentions on contacting you. You haven't received any private messages or emails from me have you? No. And it will remain that way.
@KotaSwan: That's your choice. It doesn't effect my life either way.
Have a good day/night ladies.
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11Jlady I have asked you to stop contacting me. Respect that. Perhaps that is where you're having issues in your relationship. Leave me alone. I do not wish to speak to you.. like I said please look at your issues and situation before judging mine and writing it publically. Thanks.
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