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My Psychic Experiences
sparky:
I wanted to give a little update of sorts. Not really about any predictions or anything but regarding something that I know a lot of you struggle with. I haven't a reading since March of this year after starting getting readings the October before. As it stands now, I do think sometimes to maybe get a reading but I view it such that it would just be something fun to do. Just to see what they pull up kind of thing and brush it off. Basically made it more into an entertainme nt sort of thing. Which as a result doesn't really make me want to spend the money so I don't even get one. Thus the time from my last reading gets longer and longer. I know the struggle to stop getting readings is tough and maybe that is a key to breaking away from them. Is to realize readings as just something sort of fun and silly, even if what they predict manifests itself. By doing so I think it helps take out the want or in some cases a need to call a psychic to get an answer. By just brushing them off, I think puts you in a position to just live your life and let it things happen. Is it hard to do so? I would say that it is very hard because you are holding onto what they say will indeed happen and you are preparing you life for that event to occur. So it causes this cycle of if it happened. You call because you want to know more. If it doesn't happen then you call to discover out why it didn't happen. It becomes a vicious cycle.
If you do end up viewing readings as something fun or silly to do which turns into just entertainme nt. Then you just end up weighing the costs of the reading similar to if you want to go see a movie in the theater or just wait until it comes out on Netflix or all together make you forget that you wanted to see that movie. Saving you some money. Maybe coming up with this viewpoint on readings is why we should take what they say "For entertainme nt purposes only" a bit more to heart.
So basically for my update I want to just say that I haven't had a reading in quite a few months and my viewpoint regarding getting a reading doesn't really feel like a need or a want to get one. But of one to just see what fun or silly thing they could pull up regardless if it manifests which makes me not even get one. I know I don't post a lot here like others but I do try to login and read the posts on the forum just to see how everyone is doing. How the posters life matched up with their readings or it maybe they didn't. In a way it is almost like a reading a bunch of books and checking to see if the predictions happen to match up in their book of life. The same way as if I try to predict how a TV show might progress through a season. Viewed as one big entertainme nt to enjoy. So if you are struggling in deciding to get a reading. Maybe the key in making the decision is to just change how you view them to help prevent you spending the money.
sparky:
I could of put this in vent but I didn't feel like making a new thread. lol. So sometimes I ask the universe for a sign (not really sure what I think of if it actually works or not) about my ex or just something silly like getting me to win the powerball so I can retire early lol. I usually don't think anything of it when I do it and just live my life after. But I remember a few weeks ago I did ask if my ex and I were meant to be and to give me a sign. I would say a couple days later at the most, I start to see her name everywhere. Out shopping in a store or online and there is something customizabl e with a name or even some kind of Ad. It has her name on it. Go to the dating app and a butch of profiles have her name.
I honestly don't know if it is a coincidence or not. She does have a common name so it is possible. But at the same time it is annoying. If the universe is trying to tell me that we are meant to be then why make me struggle with this time apart? I know at the time when I did ask I was hoping that if it did give a sign it would of been like "No, you're being stupid. You are not meant to be." To help the moving on process. Basically my vent is if you are asking the universe or trying to manifest something. I wish that the answer wouldn't be so vague. Anyways that is all I have to say about that. Enjoy my little vent ;) lol.
Jili1945:
--- Quote from: sparky on December 19, 2019, 05:32:38 AM ---I could of put this in vent but I didn't feel like making a new thread. lol. So sometimes I ask the universe for a sign (not really sure what I think of if it actually works or not) about my ex or just something silly like getting me to win the powerball so I can retire early lol. I usually don't think anything of it when I do it and just live my life after. But I remember a few weeks ago I did ask if my ex and I were meant to be and to give me a sign. I would say a couple days later at the most, I start to see her name everywhere. Out shopping in a store or online and there is something customizabl e with a name or even some kind of Ad. It has her name on it. Go to the dating app and a butch of profiles have her name.
I honestly don't know if it is a coincidence or not. She does have a common name so it is possible. But at the same time it is annoying. If the universe is trying to tell me that we are meant to be then why make me struggle with this time apart? I know at the time when I did ask I was hoping that if it did give a sign it would of been like "No, you're being stupid. You are not meant to be." To help the moving on process. Basically my vent is if you are asking the universe or trying to manifest something. I wish that the answer wouldn't be so vague. Anyways that is all I have to say about that. Enjoy my little vent ;) lol.
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Cool! Thanks for sharing. Hope you guys get back together very soon if this is the best for both of you :)
sparky:
--- Quote from: Jili1945 on December 19, 2019, 06:16:07 AM ---
--- Quote from: sparky on December 19, 2019, 05:32:38 AM ---I could of put this in vent but I didn't feel like making a new thread. lol. So sometimes I ask the universe for a sign (not really sure what I think of if it actually works or not) about my ex or just something silly like getting me to win the powerball so I can retire early lol. I usually don't think anything of it when I do it and just live my life after. But I remember a few weeks ago I did ask if my ex and I were meant to be and to give me a sign. I would say a couple days later at the most, I start to see her name everywhere. Out shopping in a store or online and there is something customizabl e with a name or even some kind of Ad. It has her name on it. Go to the dating app and a butch of profiles have her name.
I honestly don't know if it is a coincidence or not. She does have a common name so it is possible. But at the same time it is annoying. If the universe is trying to tell me that we are meant to be then why make me struggle with this time apart? I know at the time when I did ask I was hoping that if it did give a sign it would of been like "No, you're being stupid. You are not meant to be." To help the moving on process. Basically my vent is if you are asking the universe or trying to manifest something. I wish that the answer wouldn't be so vague. Anyways that is all I have to say about that. Enjoy my little vent ;) lol.
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Cool! Thanks for sharing. Hope you guys get back together very soon if this is the best for both of you :)
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At this point I doubt it. She got married in March. A year after we broke up and only knew the guy for 9 months. In order for us to be back together that would have to fail. Which I do have a feeling it will. Not sure when though. I don't know if I would want her back. All I want from her right now is an apology and that seems unlikely.
The vent is over that I was asking the universe if the whole thing was a mistake or not and give me a sign. You know if we were meant to be. I guess it could really be either way for the past or future. I just found the name thing a sort of coincidence with it. If she had some obscure name and I was seeing it all over. I am sure people would say yes that is a sign. But since she has a common name. Do you say the same? Because maybe it is the universe giving me a sign. Maybe just not a very clear one. If that is the case you would think the universe would make sure to give you a sign that is clear.
Yaz88:
--- Quote from: sparky on December 19, 2019, 05:32:38 AM ---I could of put this in vent but I didn't feel like making a new thread. lol. So sometimes I ask the universe for a sign (not really sure what I think of if it actually works or not) about my ex or just something silly like getting me to win the powerball so I can retire early lol. I usually don't think anything of it when I do it and just live my life after. But I remember a few weeks ago I did ask if my ex and I were meant to be and to give me a sign. I would say a couple days later at the most, I start to see her name everywhere. Out shopping in a store or online and there is something customizabl e with a name or even some kind of Ad. It has her name on it. Go to the dating app and a butch of profiles have her name.
I honestly don't know if it is a coincidence or not. She does have a common name so it is possible. But at the same time it is annoying. If the universe is trying to tell me that we are meant to be then why make me struggle with this time apart? I know at the time when I did ask I was hoping that if it did give a sign it would of been like "No, you're being stupid. You are not meant to be." To help the moving on process. Basically my vent is if you are asking the universe or trying to manifest something. I wish that the answer wouldn't be so vague. Anyways that is all I have to say about that. Enjoy my little vent ;) lol.
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Yup, this is exactly why I don’t ask the universe to give me a sign. The name thing happened to such an extreme extent with a former POI that had a relatively unique name, it had me begging the universe and God for clarity. Then one day I realized that I had all the clarity I needed. The answer of whether me and that POI should be together or whether we were ever going to be together had been clear as day all along. It was a big fat No, and the answer was evident in how he treated me and that he wasn’t planning on changing and that he didn’t want to change. Looking back, I think that when I asked the universe to give me a sign, I manifested his name appearing everywhere. The energy I put out when his name appeared caused his name to keep on appearing. I don’t know if I’m correct, but I don’t ask the universe to provide signs anymore. It was like a self fulfilling prophecy from hell.
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