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LAW1974:
LOVE following your story Sparkle:).
Miss Philosopher:
--- Quote from: diamondcanadian on March 10, 2020, 12:11:56 PM ---So basically your predictions of him going through a divorce will probably happen etc because you choose to actively Pursue and flirt with a married man.
Because you want your predictions to be right , you’re living your life to make them happen.
You don’t need to a Pursue a married man, judging by your 3028384 chapters of the sparkle show, you’ve had your fair share and can have your fair share of men. Choose one that isn’t taken and let that woman not go through a devastation of a break down of marriage she probably doesn’t see coming and find happiness with someone who you won’t wonder about him also having a wondering eye with you.
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I would like to chime in a bit here. I do agree with diamond on this one and it's because I have a little bit of a similar experience. When a certain psychic told me the name of the next man that was to come into my life in 3 or 4 different readings way back in January of 2014, he entered but he was married at the time. Turns out it was someone I'd already been friends with for 3 years prior to that reading and we hadn't been in contact for about 8 months. I made the mistake of telling him the reading I had and so I basically planted that idea in his head. Had I not done that and had I not listened to this psychic tell me that he was "the one", then I probably would have saved myself 6 years of suffering.
First of all, if someone is still married, in my opinion, it isn't morally right to pursue them. I've been that main woman and been cheated on and it was such a horrible feeling. If that man had told me he loved his wife and that there were no issues and that he was happily married and he'd never cheated before, I'd drop that situation right there because he should remain that good man. IF this man does end up having issues and gets divorced or whatever, he will need time to heal. Otherwise, you will just be a rebound and most of the time, those don't work.
I do believe that some psychics might see a person enter our lives, but that doesn't mean we are meant to be with them on a romantic level. At least, perhaps not at the time they entered.
While I do think it's neat that most of your predictions "happen", I'd agree with diamond in so much as, you should probably stop planting things in this man's head by telling him your psychic readings because behaviors may follow and then destruction and pain occurs. I mean, at some point, we have to think to ourselves "What if that was my husband and there was some woman telling him about psychic readings she was getting about them being together and she's pursuing him etc.? How would I feel?" His wife probably loves him so, if it were me, I'd leave that alone. But that's just my two cents.
kdspirited:
The only person who has his cake and is eating it is this IT dude :-) men love attention from women and will soak it up in any capacity possible. So this guy is no different. I think meanwhile his wife has no idea whats up. I wonder if they are in an open marriage. Although from what you have written it seems that the guy is telling you he has never cheated on his wife. but has his wife ever cheated on him. Like MP and DC said what happens behind closed doors no one knows. We just wouldn't want to see you get hurt. This guy knows what he is doing and I know you can take care of yourself but as I read this it is blatantly obvious to me that he thinks he is too smart for his own good.
Fidget1028:
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--- Quote from: kdspirited on March 11, 2020, 12:15:38 PM ---The only person who has his cake and is eating it is this IT dude :-) men love attention from women and will soak it up in any capacity possible. So this guy is no different. I think meanwhile his wife has no idea whats up. I wonder if they are in an open marriage. Although from what you have written it seems that the guy is telling you he has never cheated on his wife. but has his wife ever cheated on him. Like MP and DC said what happens behind closed doors no one knows. We just wouldn't want to see you get hurt. This guy knows what he is doing and I know you can take care of yourself but as I read this it is blatantly obvious to me that he thinks he is too smart for his own good.
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@kdspirited Some very valid points, and I didn't think of that either. I work in that field and a lot of the males I encounter are definately on the quieter side and nerdy so if a pretty girl gives them this level of attention, he is probably milking it for all it's worth. You are feeding that ego too.
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I agree with this.
In addition to what others have said, there's also the old saying "don't 💩 where you eat". Workplace liasons never go unnoticed and the rumor mill is always WAY more scandalous than it may actually be. Regardless, if you like your job, I'd hit the hard stop button.
diamondcanadian:
--- Quote from: SeeDoSay on March 11, 2020, 02:03:34 PM ---
--- Quote from: Sparkle002 on March 08, 2020, 09:55:15 AM ---On the Next Episode of the Sparkle Show…
*SPOOKED*
Disclaimer: If you want to read any interesting story, read on lol. I ask for no judgments. I also request no advice here as many of you know Im a pretty strong person and Ill be ok in this situation. Im simply reporting details as they align with predictions.
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Seems like a lot of you guys skipped over this bit.
Anyways it's easy to judge and pull on pre-conceived notions and judgements of "Married man" and start relying on cliches for your advice.
But no one knows the whole situation or the nuances of it except for the people who are in it.
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Disclaimer or not , you’re posting something in a public forum , people have the right to comment.
At the end of the day, no one knows the backstory . Correct.
However , a lot of people who use this forum are struggling with the possibility that there is a third party involved and it literally drives people to call psychics and have major anxiety. Posting that you are talking to a married man is probably a kick in the teeth to a lot of people here when they’ve had this experience first hand .
I’m not bashing Sparkle , and she is free to comment and write what she likes. Just expect a come back and Just be sensitive to the fact that this a forum for people who may be going through what I just posted above .
And maybe, just say your predictions came true and by who, and move on.
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