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Sparkle002:
--- Quote from: Arigirl on February 03, 2020, 07:23:23 PM ---Sparkle, have you ever read with Gaylene?
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I actually haven't...I did want to try her at one point, but I understand its hard to get to her or something
Sparkle002:
On the New Season of the Sparkle Show!
*The Road to Nowhere*
*Disclaimer* - Details included in this story are real-life scenarios that happened and Im only sharing as a way to share predictions and how they unfold along with what is happening in REAL LIFE. As a warning, there may be details in the story you may be uncomfortable with or that go against your morals of relationships and that is fine but request not to be judged for this post. Again, take this post as a way to compare Predictions to Real life and how they play out….
*Dun Dun*
Soo…this month has been a slow build-up..... where things that were predicted that I didn’t think would happen, all happened literally in the past 2 DAYS.
1. POI # 1 - Matilda, Cookie, and Barbara all saw him coming back around (after me not seeing him for 2 months) and BINGO he hits me up on Monday and I see him. Kisha did mention in an old reading a while back that he would be coming around the same time as this new energy who wants a relationship (which would be the IT Director at my job). So that brings me to the next topic….
2. The IT Director - so many predictions all happened all on the same day
1. Cookie and Venus both saw specifically that I would be going to brunch with him and we did. I found a brunch spot on yelp randomly, then he says “You want me to go to a place that I know? I said sure. Little did I know he STILL took me to a brunch spot like it was meant to be lol. Cookie saw his car and I would be getting into a “fancy silver truck”…well he drives a high-end SUV that is Silver. She also said “it looks like a date”, well we left work during lunch time and we were dressed up and he paid for my meal. Venus was even more specific in her description - she said “I smell bread, I smell bread, its like you guys are laughing. - he has quite a personality, but you both are laughing an happy”….I kid you not, we went to early lunch today during work, I got in his car - he took me to BRUNCH and there was a SMELL OF BREAD in the air…and we were laughing and had such a great conversation he thanked ME for lunch (even though he paid! Lol)
2. Cookie - she said she saw me and him KISSING. This happened YESTERDAY. She also saw him taking me home - THIS HAPPENED YESTERDAY. So of course he takes me home and yes we made out. And it was amazing (no sex) but we both KNEW that it would be amazing. Which scares both of us.
3. Matilda - She said we would have an in depth conversation in FEBRUARY about WILL WE OR WONT WE….HAPPENED TODAY
1. Basically the conversation from brunch led over to an even more in depth conversation we had in his office. We freely and openly talked about the chemistry we had and that we didn’t want to hurt each other’s feelings. We definitely valued our friendship, but didn’t know how to deal with the connection or how to proceed. So we Both agreed that we remain friends - to the point we will stay aware and be empathetic to each other’s needs.
2. I then revealed that I knew that I was going to kiss him and saw it all play out. He said “Wait, you had a premonition?” I said “yeah I actually did, I saw me running my fingers through your hair and kissing you and it happened just like I saw”. He was like “wow” do you see anything else between us you see?” I PAUSED. I WAS LIKE OMG…I DO KNOW WAY MORE< I EVEN KNEW YOU BEFORE I MET YOU!!!…..and guess what? I told him just that!! I revealed to him I knew about him almost a year and a half before I met him though predictions and told him that I got readings…he always came up in my general reads. HE WAS AMAZED AND WANTED TO KNOW MORE. He even revealed to me he has had premonitions here and there. I just thought it was amazing to be able to share that with him and we talk about it. We literally talked about all the predictions and everything.
He was like “Wait now that I know this, do you think you want to change anything, I mean do you think revealing this to me could change the future?” I said “I DONT KNOW”. “He said well I value you as a friend and don’t want to hurt you and I don’t want to get hurt either. I wondered the other day if you thought if I was a bad person after I kissed you” (since he has never done this or cheated before - and ALL readers said this on their own). He said “Did the readers pick up that I was a good guy? I try to be…I said “As a matter of fact they did! Several of them AND they all said you were attractive” He was like “ OH WOW lol”. He said I really do care about you as a friend….and I can’t deny the strong chemistry we have - I said - “so what do we do about it?” He said “The only thing I can suggest is that we be friends - and keep each other in mind, be empathetic to each other and take it day by day - I don’t know maybe this is something that needs to be played out (not only talking sexually) - we will see”. I said well it was disappointing to find out you were married I mean all of my readers said we would be in a relationship” - He said “Well technically lol….” I was like a “COMMITTED relationship lol”…and if we happen to take the next step, Im afraid emotions will grow and I would want to see you more...he said “I understand…well it would be my responsibility to honor that, so we really are in a quote on quote relationship”…
* SO NOW I know why readers saw what they saw about me being in a relationship with this guy in FEBRUARY - wow..>SMH its like they saw it but it wasn’t WHAT I THOUGHT
* Also, I did give him the warning that Cookie gave me about him - she said he would be sad or depressed from March - May (Cookie specifically said it would be about his wife…and how they would eventually divorce, and every other reader said this as well). However in real life, he has not mentioned his wife not once, never complained about her or anything…so from my side everything “appears” to be fine. Even when I gave him the warning he asked me what exactly he would be sad about -infidelity, money, kids? And I said you know what ,I don’t know, but its something about your wife. I couldn’t bring myself to say that they could have issues and get a divorce because I really don’t know. I told him the readers could be wrong about being depressed but - I said just be aware
So for those readers who saw FRIENDSHIP - yep they were right - I definitely see a friendship here very nice guy….but random situation. So many readers picked up on this FRIENDSHIP that would GROW INTO SOMETHING MORE, or have a romantic element to it - basically a relationship, that’s not committed. But they see us as soulmates and it is a very unique connection (this is not the bs soulmate stuff bs readers say)…
Delores, Cookie, Venus, Tulsa, Indio, Tajah, Kisha (she thought it was a different energy but the description is him), Matilda, Barbar4846 all said FRIENDSHIP with this guy, and the following readers saw HIM falling IN LOVE with me Cookie, Delores, Barbara, Indio — all of them recently said that we would get CLOSER AND CLOSER and the relationship would get deeper - I told him this…
Mind you, ALL my readers SEE ME DATING ANOTHER GUY so don’t worry about me getting caught up with this one. LOL. Cookie said it would be harder on him than it is for me. They did say that the IT Director will get jealous though - I don’t see it yet, but maybe …we’ll see on the next episode of the Sparkle Show!
HornetKick:
I don't understand what empathetic means in regards to the relationship. Do both of you have an intent to show an ability to understand and share each other's feelings, which in essence would bring you closer?
He may honestly be a great guy, but I feel I read some manipulation in what he said to you. It's minor, but it's there. Perhaps it's an innate trait for males.
Didn't you say earlier he mentioned trouble with his wife or they were having trouble? I thought it was predicted, and I thought he mentioned it as well. I might be wrong, so I wanted to check.
I believe that telling him about the predictions will sway how he acts, although he may not have acted on it previously. We all do this at some point basing things on what readers tell us. And yes you can change the present course. It's your story. Psychics only give options of possible things they see at the time of the reading.
Also, he should thank you for lunch, you're the prize and he should be honored that he shares the air you breathe.
Sparkle002:
--- Quote from: HornetKick on February 26, 2020, 09:43:22 PM ---I don't understand what empathetic means in regards to the relationship. Do both of you have an intent to show an ability to understand and share each other's feelings, which in essence would bring you closer?<--Yes exactly! I think we are doing that now. In a way, its like actively trying to be careful about not hurting each other...I guess...Ive never been in this situation before so we'll see
He may honestly be a great guy, but I feel I read some manipulation in what he said to you. It's minor, but it's there. Perhaps it's an innate trait for males. <--Hmmm maybe it's the way I wrote it - not sure? I didn't get a sense of that from him in real life, but I won't deny the possibility
Didn't you say earlier he mentioned trouble with his wife or they were having trouble? I thought it was predicted, and I thought he mentioned it as well. I might be wrong, so I wanted to check.<-- Yep just predicted - Ive heard it via predictions so much it sounds very real, but he hasn't mentioned a peep about his wife yet - Matilda, Cookie, Indio, Barbara specifically told me that I will hear something specific about their relationship and issues surrounding it.
I believe that telling him about the predictions will sway how he acts, although he may not have acted on it previously. We all do this at some point basing things on what readers tell us. And yes you can change the present course. It's your story. Psychics only give options of possible things they see at the time of the reading. <--We'll see! The only thing I really told him about predictively about "our" future is us getting closer and the potential issue with his wife (everything else was predicted and happened)...and ya know, Im fine with that...this isn't going anywhere from my perspective so what he does may or may change the outcome, but I don't even know what the outcome looks like other than I already know we wont be in a committed relationship. I feel it would have to be a conscious effort on his part to change it though - to do the opposite of not getting closer.
Also, he should thank you for lunch, you're the prize and he should be honored that he shares the air you breathe.<-- Haha well thank you!! Makes sense to me!
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beachgal214:
love your updates - the details you get from cookie in particular are so crazy to me.
I have had two readings with her - both knowing how to go into it- letting her pick up what she sees - and both times, she basically got nothing, asked questions, "are you two currently together" ? and "I see separation, has that happened?" and that was all the "info" she could spit out, everything else was just sort of tuning in and I knew not the "good gems" of predictions she can get. was more reading on the relationship which from what ive read might be tuned in but not necessarily actual predictions. anyway all this to say I wish she could connect with me like she can you! its fascinating!!
maybe this sort of thing wasnt meant to be revealed in my readings which is totally possible. but anyway! I love reading your show.
Good luck with everything. You are a lot stronger than I think I would be. I get so caught up in making out and emotions and would have a hard time backing down. but maybe if it felt authentic struggle on both sides and it was it was and mutual understanding of wanting more but timing nit right it might be easier? but for me I doubt it. I am who I am! wish I could step feelings aside more!
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