Tough love is wrong. You should not be hard on sensitive people. It hurts more than helps and I am astound at amount of people that do not understand that. The only advice i got was do not call reader when upset. I usually agree but you can not blame for seeing what i did as sign. So I listen to advice. Just because i have a sad post does not mean i do not listen to advice. And even if I did not listen to advice It is wrong and immature to hold pride and say told you so if one refuse advice it is not tough love. Tough love is just excuse to show a mean side to the people that hurt. Instead of be hurtful toward some body who suffering instead of tell them I told you so be kind and empathize.
Okay. But you similarly have to surely understand why people are getting frustrated with you. We all are in the same boat.
Why? Tell me why people get angry with me. Because I sensitive? Then that is there problem. If they get anger at my worry or sadness then can not you see they are in the wrong?! You do not get anger at the coworker who always sad do you? I am not always sad and my post are not always sad but just example. If you do get frustrate with coworker who always sad that is your problem and no theres. People here need to be kinder and empathetic and understand that when people make mistake or hurt or post some thing skeptical or sad, the last thing need is to be jerk to them and make them hurt more.
Natasha and I have just told you, (and a few others) why you are being a little frustrating
. We all understand you're worried. We all are. You post the same questions constantly and don't listen to people's advice. It then frustrates them and you think they're being mean to you. If someone kept on asking you the same questions over and over again and didn't listen to you, you would get frustrated, too. People on here are a really nice bunch, they have helped you. It's just you're asking them the same questions again and again, so we are finding it a little frustrating
. They are looking out for you and trying to help.