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Have most advisors told you not to reach out to your POI?
journalmuse:
A lot have given me that advice but some have said the opposite. My impression is it’s just a common strategy people use after break ups thinking it will shock the person into being scared that maybe it’s YOU who are moving on instead of them.
I’ve never been able to do it for any length of time because it’s just not who I am. I can’t pretend not to want to talk to someone when I do. I also think it can blow up in your face. It may work for some but has never felt right for me.
maroonlight:
A lot of advisors have told me that, but that could be to cover up their false predictions because if you don't reach out, you have to sit and wait for the time frames and basically believe what they tell you. If you do decide to reach out and you never get a response, then it's clear that they don't have feelings for you like the advisor said they did. I've always said that if the person really does have feelings for you, gently reaching out to them before the timeframe that a fake internet psychic gives you isn't going to change that, unless they particularly told you not to contact them again. If it's been a long time, say over 6 months, that you haven't heard from them and you're still fixated on them and are getting readings on them, just reach out and find out the truth for yourself. That happened to me on 2 separate occasions in the past when I was addicted to readings and reaching out to the individuals gave me the wakeup call that they really did not want to be with me and that everything the readers said was a complete lie.
sawthelight:
--- Quote from: Still tired on May 25, 2018, 07:12:35 AM ---Most told me not to contact my ex and they were absolutely right about it and right about the reasons they gave for it. The ones who suggested contacting my ex were dead wrong. What they predicted would happen if I made contact did not happen. I wish I had listened to the ones who told me not to contact him.
Ultimately follow your own instincts about what to do. You know what feels right to you. Every situation is different. It's not about what the readers say. You know in your heart and in your gut what to do.
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I agree. I had a few tell me to reach out and talk to POI, and tell him how i feel, etc...and it was such bad advice.
I have learned to trust my intuition when it came to POI...there were times I reached out, and regretted it so much.
I need a man to show me how he feels and make an effort. I will never chase someone, or want to be with someone who makes me feel like I'm doing all the work.
An old friend of mine was dating a guy for years and the only time they got together was when she asked him out. I remember thinking, how can that be ok with you?? He literally never even reached out to say hello, she always had to be the one chasing.
Sooshi:
--- Quote from: sawthelight on May 25, 2018, 07:20:32 AM ---An old friend of mine was dating a guy for years and the only time they got together was when she asked him out. I remember thinking, how can that be ok with you?? He literally never even reached out to say hello, she always had to be the one chasing.
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Ah, the limp spaghetti type. I'm familiar with those.
sawthelight:
--- Quote from: Sooshi on May 25, 2018, 01:02:33 PM ---
--- Quote from: sawthelight on May 25, 2018, 07:20:32 AM ---An old friend of mine was dating a guy for years and the only time they got together was when she asked him out. I remember thinking, how can that be ok with you?? He literally never even reached out to say hello, she always had to be the one chasing.
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Ah, the limp spaghetti type. I'm familiar with those.
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Hahahaha!! Perfect description
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