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Which Reader Did You Give a Second Chance?
sawthelight:
Anne wasn't nasty to me either, but I did get the impression that I had to ask my question carefully, or she would lose patience. Like you had to tread carefully with her.
she was right for me about the last POI, she saw no movement for a year and nothing came of it.
HornetKick:
Anne was never nasty to me either. The call was short only because I found it useless. I recall when calling her to be on the lookout for how harsh she was going to be based on other's posts, but I didn't get any of that. I totally just cringed reading other people's experiences of abuse with her.
whskers:
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--- Quote from: doubleoh8 on August 08, 2018, 10:11:33 PM ---There are hundreds of readers that can make you feel good in the moment because they have a soothing tone or know what to say to placate or postpone harsher realities. I think QoC is one who refuses to do that and I personally consider that to be a more ethical approach. I get that it's not pleasant to hear an annoyed tone in a reader's voice, but I'd prefer to pay for that (if it's real) than to pay someone ultra sweet who is jus stringing me along...
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I think a good reader is someone who can determine which is the best approach for the caller in the moment. Some people need compassion and gentleness. I don't think that's "stringing" anyone along.
With Anne, based on my experience, she wasn't giving tough love. Her vibe was more, "Why are you wasting my time, you f-cking idiot?" When you're already anxious about the POI you're calling about, having intensity blasted at you isn't always the best thing.
Sure, if you have an established connection with Anne, and you've asked the same question a bunch of times, then her being direct would be beneficial.
I just remember, back when I was calling Keen a lot, calling Anne was a low point. I was feeling so vulnerable and out of my mind at that time. After she spoke to me as harshly as she did, I hung up feeling really unsettled for a couple of hours afterward. Then the shame set in. Who in their right mind pays to talk to someone on Keen only to be left feeling bad for calling in the first place?
She's awful.
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That’s the vibe I got from Anne too. Like.. “are you a f*cking idiot you’re so stupid you can get it in your thick skull I’m too good for you”. I don’t care for psychics who are sweet and string you along either. I want psychics who will not sugar coat but I will come out of the reading empowered. E.g. Yona will deliver to me very negative reading but coming out of the reading, I know I should do X Y Z to improve myself and watch out for those action poi might do. I feel very empowered and guided after but her delivery is very kind and motivating. Well I guess me as a customer, also has to choose what psychics delivery work for me and Anne doesn’t work for me but other may Like that approach. Cookie maybe very accurate for me but I just don’t like her delivery either. So.... just my two cents.
Newlife:
I will second this lol, I once asked for a general reading and something came up that I was not thinking about, she told me about a move or relocation, I said no it doesn’t apply, i the asked if my girlfriend was moving because she applied for a job and then she got upset, she said she had just mentioned, I felt so stupid because I didn’t connect the two moves. Anyway that move never happened last month so I totally agree. You have to think carefully on what she’s saying.
--- Quote from: whskers on August 09, 2018, 10:22:34 AM ---
--- Quote from: Presence on August 08, 2018, 11:11:24 PM ---
--- Quote from: doubleoh8 on August 08, 2018, 10:11:33 PM ---There are hundreds of readers that can make you feel good in the moment because they have a soothing tone or know what to say to placate or postpone harsher realities. I think QoC is one who refuses to do that and I personally consider that to be a more ethical approach. I get that it's not pleasant to hear an annoyed tone in a reader's voice, but I'd prefer to pay for that (if it's real) than to pay someone ultra sweet who is jus stringing me along...
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I think a good reader is someone who can determine which is the best approach for the caller in the moment. Some people need compassion and gentleness. I don't think that's "stringing" anyone along.
With Anne, based on my experience, she wasn't giving tough love. Her vibe was more, "Why are you wasting my time, you f-cking idiot?" When you're already anxious about the POI you're calling about, having intensity blasted at you isn't always the best thing.
Sure, if you have an established connection with Anne, and you've asked the same question a bunch of times, then her being direct would be beneficial.
I just remember, back when I was calling Keen a lot, calling Anne was a low point. I was feeling so vulnerable and out of my mind at that time. After she spoke to me as harshly as she did, I hung up feeling really unsettled for a couple of hours afterward. Then the shame set in. Who in their right mind pays to talk to someone on Keen only to be left feeling bad for calling in the first place?
She's awful.
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That’s the vibe I got from Anne too. Like.. “are you a f*cking idiot you’re so stupid you can get it in your thick skull I’m too good for you”. I don’t care for psychics who are sweet and string you along either. I want psychics who will not sugar coat but I will come out of the reading empowered. E.g. Yona will deliver to me very negative reading but coming out of the reading, I know I should do X Y Z to improve myself and watch out for those action poi might do. I feel very empowered and guided after but her delivery is very kind and motivating. Well I guess me as a customer, also has to choose what psychics delivery work for me and Anne doesn’t work for me but other may Like that approach. Cookie maybe very accurate for me but I just don’t like her delivery either. So.... just my two cents.
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Dreamer23:
--- Quote from: Presence on August 09, 2018, 06:48:11 PM ---One more thing about my experience with Anne (before I stop hijacking this thread)...
When I did call to ask about my POI, she asked if we lived in the same city. I'm going to assume she picked up on that. I told her we didn't. We actually didn't. He was in Manhattan and I was living in NJ. Obviously, it wasn't a long distance relationship. It took me 20-30 minutes to get into the city and we saw each other all the time.
But Anne insisted us not living in the same city was why he was behaving the way he did. And when I tried to explain, that's when she got harsh with me. She wouldn't let me explain or clarify. She was just rude and dismissive and made me feel like I was the stupid one for not understanding that distance was the issue.
Of course, like an idiot, after her call, I did wonder if, maybe, he was being distant because I couldn't afford to live in NYC and he would prefer to be with a woman who could. Ugh. That call with her really did my head in and left me feeling really low and ashamed.
As I've written on other threads, as it turns out, my POI, unbeknownst to me, was married with three kids. That's why it was never going to work out. Anne never picked up on any of that.
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Wow!! She is supposed to be good, how come she didn't pick up on that? And her making you wonder that maybe it was the distance that was a factor...that's how a psychic can mess with your own judgment and give you a wrong idea. It can be really dangerous.
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